Flamingo 91!

Paris Peace Accords signed January 27, 1973

2012-01-27T12:04:00.000-05:00

The Paris Peace Accords were signed this day in 1973, ending the Vietnam War. Remember all who served in Vietnam, and the 1,678 who are still unaccounted for.

It was only after Secretary of State William P. Rogers signed his name 62 times to the Peace Accords did the United States find out the shocking number of POWs North Vietnam would return.

The total number of Americans to be returned at Operation Homecoming was 577! What happened to the other 1,000 plus men? Read An Enormous Crime, The Definitive Account of American POWs Abandoned in Southeast Asia and find out.

Time is running short for those who may still be alive, yes, still alive. Never forget our left behind warriors.

Thank you Vietnam Veterans for your service and sacrifices then and through the years upon your return home. God Bless you all.

Remembering Firebird Nine One and Crew

2012-01-10T08:36:00.000-05:00

January 10, 1970

Standing tall in honor and memory of Firebird Nine One crew: Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, WO3 George Andrew Howes, WO1 Wayne C Allen, and WO1 Francis G. Graziosi, all U.S. Army.

Happy New Year!

2011-12-31T17:05:00.001-05:00

Merry Christmas Herby!

2011-12-15T22:01:00.000-05:00

Thank you Wreaths Across America! Thank you Diehard and Digits and all Vietnam Veterans who helped lay these wreath on the graves at Arlington National Cemetery on December 10, 2011. I couldn't make it this year to lay the wreath myself, but one of my dear Vietnam Vet brothers did so for me and I am so touched by their mission.

This is such a beautiful photo which for me brings such a bittersweet feeling. I've been there each December for the past four years to lay wreaths. I've touched this headstone so many times in the December cold that just looking at the photo I can feel the cool, cold marble stone surface on my fingers as if I was touching it now. I can feel the breeze and smell of the air as it flows around me as I sit next to this stone. I can feel the honor, the sacred ground reaching out to me. I can hear them speak in the breeze. It's a most wonderful, soulful feeling one can never forget. Visit your heroes and listen to their stories. They will talk to you if you just listen.

Remember our fallen, teach our young about them, and never, ever forget them.

Merry Christmas Herby.

Merry Christmas George Andrew (Andy) Howes

2011-12-15T21:50:00.000-05:00

This photo is of the grave of George Andrew (Andy) Howes on December 10, 2011, after being decorated and honored by Wreaths Across America. Thank you Diehard, Digits, and all Vietnam Veterans who particpated in this honorable event. Love you all and thank you!!!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

2011-12-06T08:57:00.001-05:00

Enjoy the holidays, and give those small gifts of "acts of kindness"

as these will be the most special gifts of all you receive.

PEACE - LOVE - JOY

Happy Thanksgiving

2011-11-23T21:53:00.001-05:00

You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. 2 Corinthians 9:11 NIV

May The Lord bless you and keep you and shine His light upon you and give you peace. And may your generosity to those in need embrace your heart of Thanks Giving.

Happy Thanksgiving,

Marylou, Dan and Jane (mom)

Happy Veteran's Day

2011-11-10T16:53:00.001-05:00

Thank you Veterans!

Thank you for your service to our country, along with the sacrifices you and your families have made in support of your duty. Without your courage, bravery and commitment we would certainly never have the freedom we so enjoy. Many take it for granted, but I do hope that all take the time to thank you.

Remember our fallen veterans.

Remember our veterans who were left behind.

Remember our homeless veterans.

And most all, thank the Veterans.
Shake their hand and say "Thank You."
That's all you have to do.

POW/MIA Recognition Day 2011-Wear Black for Support

2011-09-15T21:17:00.001-04:00

Tomorrow, Friday, September 16, 2011, take a moment to remember our fallen heroes from all wars who were/are prisoners of war and missing in action.

It's National POW/MIA Recognition Day 2011. The current Administration is trying to cut back drastically the funding to repatriate the remains of our POW/MIAs. We all need to wear Black this day to show our solidarity to those of whom did not make it back from combat, and to their families, who desire closure in knowing the true fate of their loved ones. Our country should never forget our fallen, and not leave any one behind.

We should also recognize those who work tirelessly digging, excavating, researching to find and identify our loved ones. This would be Joint POW/MIA Accounting Command (JPAC). They will be hosting a ceremony to commemorate this day at the National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific, to honor all former prisoners of war and fallen U.S. personnel whose identity remains unknown.

JPAC's home is in Hawaii at the Central Identification Laboratory in Hawaii. Like JPAC on your facebook page. Keep up on what's going on. Very interesting work they do. I'd love to be part of that team.

There will be many events going on across the country, although sadly most folks won't know or don't know about them unless they're associated with a POW/ MIA or a supporter like The Rolling Thunder.

Last year I had the honor and privilege to be a guest of the Rolling Thunder's The Ride Home event which honors all former prisoners of war and remembering of those still missing in action. It's held each year at the at the National Historic Site at Andersonville, GA (the site of the historical prisoner of war camp in the Civil War and now national cemetery). It's also the home of the National Prisoners of War Museum. Visit The Ride Home website for more information of what they are are doing for our national defenders. Visit their facebook page for hands on accounts of the event.

I have friends who have family members still missing in action, and prisoners of war who I met last year who are all there now. I would love to be with them, hug them and feel the comfort of fellowship. Hopefully next year. There are POWs form WWII to Vietnam who are there. It's an awesome event. What an honor and overwhelming experience it is to be among our most courageous and determined national heroes. Never forget. Teach the young.

"The nation which forgets its defenders will be itself forgotten." Calvin Coolidge

Firebird Nine One Crew Drawing by Massachusetts Artist

2011-08-18T12:04:00.000-04:00

This pencil drawing was given to our family at the funeral of WO George A. (Andy) Howes earlier this month in Arlington, Virginia. The drawing was done by artist Gina Johnson of Woburn, MA. Gina has sketched many military members with Massachusetts ties who died while or after serving in Iraq and Afghanistan since September 11, 2001. She has a whole wall of heroes. She has said the portraits can remind people that there is a face behind every name. She is trying to do all soldiers from Massachusetts or with ties from there.
The tie to Firebird 91 crew comes from John (Ski) Wiklanski of the 71st Assault Helicopter Company, summer '69 era Firebirds, Chu Lai, Vietnam. Ski was friend and comrade to Wayne Allen, who recently met up with Wayne's best friend from their hometown in Massachusetts, Fred Shine. Fred knows Gina, and pictured above is the rest of the story.
She has captured the essence of each man in their eyes which brings them back to life. I took a copy to mom, who is 92 and in a nursing home now. Her eyes lit up while awe came upon her face. She being an artist herself was very impressed with the drawing. She said, "This is excellent." I left her holding and looking at every detail. It's proudly hanging in her room.
Thank you, Gina!
I found an article on the web about one of her exhibits here. Take a look.

Capt. Crosby Funeral by Rolling Thunder

2011-08-14T13:17:00.002-04:00

Last month I contacted the president of the Viriginia Chapter 3 Rolling Thunder to invite them to the funeral of WO3 George Andrew Howes at Arlington National Cemetery, August 5. This chapter, including many, many other Rolling Thunder chapters across the country, along with Patriot Guard Riders attended my brother's (Capt. Herbert C Crosby) funeral held 5 May 2007. Their presence was awesome and touched our family deeply that they attended. I knew they should be at Andy's funeral also.

I received a call shortly before leaving for Arlington by one of the members who confirmed their attendance and secured all the information needed. He, and his wife had attended Herby's funeral and he, along with their chapter was honored to do the same for Andy. He also told me he had over a 100 photos that their photographer (who is a Smithsonian photographer) took at Herby's funeral so he'd burn a CD to give to me when we met up at Andy's funeral.

I put the photos together for a short slideshow here to give you a beautiful view of the funeral from the perspective of the Rolling Thunder. It displays a super overall view of the funeral, and the touching moments thoughout. Enjoy and remember. [There is no music to this.]

Knox soldier's remains finally come home from Vietnam

2011-08-03T11:33:00.001-04:00

Knox soldier's remains finally come home from Vietnam

http://www.wndu.com/indiana/headlines/Knox_soldier_finally_comes_home_after_40_years_126568193.html

2011-08-03T11:20:00.000-04:00

http://www.wndu.com/indiana/headlines/Knox_soldier_finally_comes_home_after_40_years_126568193.html

Vietnam veteran, missing for decades, comes home to Knox - Post-Tribune

2011-08-03T11:18:00.000-04:00

Vietnam veteran, missing for decades, comes home to Knox - Post-Tribune

Facebook Page for Andy Howes

2011-08-03T11:17:00.000-04:00

Check out the In Memory page for Andy:

Facebook: In Memory of George Andrews [Andy] Howes

Lots of information, photos, video of Knox, Indiana Welcome Home services.

Welcome Home American Hero-George Andrew Howes

2011-08-01T07:57:00.000-04:00

George Andrew [Andy] Howes

Today, August 1, 2011, WO3 George Andrew (Andy) Howes comes home to Knox, Indiana. It's been over 40 years, way too long, but he is finally home. The whole town is expected to welcome home their hero.

Escorted by a family member currently serving in Afghanistan he is flying in from the Central Intelligence Laboratory in Hawaii (CILHI) arriving at Indianapolis International Airport this afternoon Family, friends and comrades will be on the airport ramp to meet the plane and remove the casket from the aircraft. A brief service will be conducted by a chaplain as Andy is placed in the coach. From there the motorcade procession will depart to Knox, Indiana.

His memorial service which includes the whole town of Knox will be held Tuesday, August 2. After this service Andy will make the final leg of his journey home to his resting place at Arlington National Cemetery. Burial ceremony begins at 0900 Friday, August 5 at the Fort Myer Chapel with full military honors.

Andy was listed MIA Vietnam on January 10, 1970. He was co-pilot of Firebird 91 when returning from a combat mission the helicopter gunship went down. The crew of four were lost in a unfortunate casualty of war.

Remember our fallen heroes. Welcome home Andy Howes!

Happy Birthday Flamingo 91

2011-07-28T19:54:00.000-04:00

My sweet hubby gave me a new iMac for my birthday. So Flamingo 91 is now all Mac. Loving it, oh yeah! Happy Birthday Flamingo 91

Happy Birthday, America!

2011-07-04T10:05:00.000-04:00

"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free. The wretched refuse of you teamming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!" ... by Emma Lazarus.

Lord, America was founded on Christian principles by those who believed you should be a part of all that went on within this great land. Forigive us for forgetting the humility, the honor, and the pride that established the United States of America. Help me to instill in others the great patriotism of the land of the free and the home of the brave.

Thank you for the privilege of being an American. I am grateful for this nation and for the principles on which it was founded and for which it stands. Protect those who are fighting for those principles, whether on a battlefield or in a courtroom. In your name I pray, Amen

The above prayers are from the July 3 and July 4 devotional pages of The One Year Yellow Ribbon Devotional, by Brenda Pace and Carol McGothlin. I highly recommend you check out their websites and this devotional for women (men too). I don't think I could possibly write anything more appropriate. Thank you Brenda and Carol, your daily devotionals are so touching to my heart.

Posting a lot on FaceBook

2011-06-17T22:24:00.000-04:00

Hey everyone, Just a reminder that I'm posting a lot of information on my Facebook page. Especially information from JPAC and the National League of POW/MIA Families so do put me on you favorites. Lots of great information.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/profile.php?id=100001228921306&sk=wall
So take a look and bookmark the site as alway something new coming in fromJPAC, DOD and USArmy! Love them all.

Happy Birthday Captain Crosby

2011-05-30T14:19:00.000-04:00

"Mom, Mom!," yelled the little boy running into the house with excitement. "Mom. Guess what?" "What son?," mom asked. "Someone else has a birthday today too!" "Well Herby, how do you know that?" "Because their house has a flag hanging outside also." Mom smiled, gave him a hug and said, "That may be, but it's Memorial Day too. Let me tell you about Memorial Day."

That little boy, Herby, was born on Memorial Day, May 30, 1947. His Grandma Crosby brought a baby gift to him just hours after his birth in the hospital, a full size American flag. Herby grew up with the flag as his icon of birth and patriotism. He became a Cub Scout, Boy Scout and Eagle Scout.
That little boy became Capt. Herbert C Crosby, US Army, helicopter gunship pilot (Firebird Nine One) with the 71st Assault Helicopter Company, A/501st Aviation Battalion, Chu Lai, Vietnam. That 22-year old Captain died while serving his flag and his country January 10, 1970. He was MIA 37 years, finally having remains identified and buried at Arlington National Cemetery, May 25, 2007 (Memorial Day weekend). Buried as close to his birthday as possible in honor of his devotion to God, country, and the American flag.
He came into this world with an American flag, lived for the American flag, served his country for the American flag giving the ultimate sacrifice for all it stands for. Freedom.

General Orders No.11, WASHINGTON, D.C., May 5, 1868

The 30th day of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village, and hamlet church-yard in the land. In this observance no form of ceremony is prescribed, but posts and comrades will in their own way arrange such fitting services and testimonials of respect as circumstances may permit.

We are organized, comrades, as our regulations tell us, for the purpose among other things, "of preserving and strengthening those kind and fraternal feelings which have bound together the soldiers, sailors, and marines who united to suppress the late rebellion." What can aid more to assure this result than cherishing tenderly the memory of our heroic dead, who made their breasts a barricade between our country and its foes? Their soldier lives were the reveille of freedom to a race in chains, and their deaths the tattoo of rebellious tyranny in arms. We should guard their graves with sacred vigilance. All that the consecrated wealth and taste of the nation can add to their adornment and security is but a fitting tribute to the memory of her slain defenders. Let no wanton foot tread rudely on such hallowed grounds. Let pleasant paths invite the coming and going of reverent visitors and fond mourners. Let no vandalism of avarice or neglect, no ravages of time testify to the present or to the coming generations that we have forgotten as a people the cost of a free and undivided republic.

If other eyes grow dull, other hands slack, and other hearts cold in the solemn trust, ours shall keep it well as long as the light and warmth of life remain to us.

Let us, then, at the time appointed gather around their sacred remains and garland the passionless mounds above them with the choicest flowers of spring-time; let us raise above them the dear old flag they saved from his honor; let us in this solemn presence renew our pledges to aid and assist those whom they have left among us a sacred charge upon a nation's gratitude, the soldier's and sailor's widow and orphan.

Graves of my brother Herby (foreground) and dad, Herb Crosby, Friendship Cemetery in Donalsonville,GA.
Thank you Luke for placing these flags each Memorial Day. Although Herby's remains are buried at Arlington National Cemetery, Section 60, plot 557, a grave marker was placed upon his declaration of death in 1974 in Donalsonville.

Today, Memorial Day will always be a special day for memories of our fallen loved one. We honor Herby, his father, Herb [dad], along with all our fallen heroes from all wars. As written above, we raise above them the dear old flag saved from his honor; we, in solemn presence renew our pledge to aid and assist those left behind, and garland the passionless mounds above them with the choicest flowers.

You, and all your fellow MIAs, POWs, and comrades then and now are held in the highest regard and respect. The humblest gift I can give you is to keep your memory alive so other's do not forget.

Happy Birthday Herby. Miss you and dad, dearly.

Burial of Additional Remains-Capt. Herbert C. Crosby

2011-04-24T15:16:00.000-04:00

April 8, 2011. Arlington National Cemetery. Cold. Raining. Somber. Touching. Respectful. Honor. Tears. Love. Laughter. Family. Friend. Comrade.

It was all of those and more. I wasn't sure what to expect that day. Wasn't sure how the service would be held, yet I knew it would be emotional. It was.

Dan, Ann and I arrived at the cemetery on that cold and rainy Friday afternoon. [Ann is the sister-in-law to Andy Howes whose remains were just recently identified. He was Herby's co-pilot, and he will be buried in Arlington August 5, 2011.] We checked in at the cemetery administration offices and met Chaplain Hernandez who was performing the service.

As we were driven to the grave site one could see funerals being held in various sections of the cemetery. As I approached the canopied grave a big smile of amazement came on my face as I saw the laminated photo/identifcation card I left at his grave in December with Wreaths Across America. I was overwhelmed with gladness to see it was still there. Someone, most likely whoever was prepping the area had placed it against the headstone. Usually it's pushed down in front of the grave to keep it from blowing away, or being picked up by Arlington staff as no items can be left at the graves.

We took our places and then the procession began which was led by Chaplain Hernandez, and followed by The Old Guard members, and Arlington Lady and Arlington staff. Even though we have done this previously at the burial in May 2007, this time was also emotional. A much smaller affair, yet it was monumental none the least. Five teeth and two bone fragments were encased in the beautiful wooden urn and buried above the casket currently there.

During the short service I noticed a movement out of the corner of my eye so I turned my head and there sat Doug Womack. Doug is from the same Company and Battalion [Rattlers and Firebirds] as Herby. Although he was not there at the time of Herby's loss January 10, 1970, he came shortly thereafter and helped in search of the Firebird Nine One crew. He attended the funeral in May 2007 also, and I've known him ever since. It was such an honor for him to be there. Thank you for being the Doug!

I placed the red, white and blue bouquet at his grave marker which I had brought for the service. It was time to leave, and that was the hardest part for me. It always is.

If more remains are identified in the future the same burial will be performed, and we'll be there if at all possible. Rest in peace faithful soldier and brother.

Ann Howes, Dan, Doug Womack, and Marylou

Graduation Day! Abby Graduated!

2011-03-20T16:12:00.000-04:00

Celebrate! It's Graduation Day for Abby Wade. She passed her Puppy Class Training in flying colors. She pranced around Petco with the other graduates as their names and accomplishments were announced over the PA system. It was like we were on a runway for a fashion show. It was a beautiful moment.

I must say I had my fears as we went to class this morning for the wrap up of our six weeks of training classes. Now was the time to demonstrate our success in front of all the class. Abby was great though. She did her "sit" however, she had a little issue with the "sit/stay." We'll continue to work on that one, plus a few more.

She can "leave it", "down" with encouragement from a few treats! When we had to walk about the store with and without the lease to do "heel" and "sit" along the way, I was a little dubious, but she was FABULOUS. She out did them all. I was actually shocked, especially when she was off the lease heeling with me and obeying the sit commands when I would stop. She didn't go running all over the place. It was a glorious moment.

Abby and I signed up for Puppy Class at Petco the weekend after I picked her up (January 27)...class was filling up and there was only one spot left. We took it. I was determined to learn how teach her the basics. Although she would learn I was sure, it was whether I would learn! Well, I still need assistance on that but she is learning very well indeed. The six weeks of training has paid off and she's doing great.

I'm so proud of my little girl. She received a huge bag of treats for her graduation...the bag is almost bigger than she is as she's now weighing in at 5 pounds.

After graduation Dan brought her home to give her a spa bath, along with her big brother Buddy. They had a great time, and just as I was returning home I walked in to the spa to see the little graduate get her bath. Big brother Buddy had already had his and he was so concerned about Abby that he was intensly watching and focused on her. Needless to say, she did fine.

It's so wonderful to see how Buddy has taken to little Abby. He didn't want much to do with her when she first arrived. In fact it took several weeks for him to come around, but now, they are inseparatable. They love each other very much and fight all the time [playfully most times]! Hmmm, isn't that something? Sounds like every sibling connection I know of.

Happy Puppy Class Graduation Abby! You were the cutest graduate of them all. What will be next for this little princess? Only time will tell.

Meet Abby Wade

2011-01-29T17:10:00.000-05:00

Our newest member of the family...Abby Wade. Big brother Buddy was less enthused should we say on the first day of Abby's arrival. He's adjusting, somewhat.

Remembering Firebird Nine One and Crew: January 10, 1970

2011-01-10T13:50:00.001-05:00

Today, January 10, 2011 is the 41st anniversary of the loss of Firebird Nine One and crew. It's been 41 years of one of life's bitter events, a tragic casualty of war. Four families and countless friends and comrades spent years waiting, wondering, searching and never giving up hope, yet finally realizing our loved one isn't going to walk through the front door ever again. We moved on with our lives, yet we never gave up hope.

We held on, and still hold on to those precious memories of life and times before January 10, 1970. We stood fast to honor and never give up the cause to locate the missing crew of Firebird Nine One. We joined the National League of POW/MIA Families in hopes of spreading the word for support in never forgetting our missing and to keep our government powers searching for answers. We prevailed, and although the League is struggling financially, it still remains active today.

A glitter of hope reignited in 1991 when one crew member was repatriated and remains identified. Then, 15 years later in 2006 two more crew members were identified (my brother being one of these two), and finally, just this past December 2010, the remaining missing crew member was identified. Know that remains are not full body remains, but rather bone fragments and teeth. Final identification was accomplished using DNA from relatives of our lost heroes.

It's a bittersweet event of life...the return of remains from a bitter event of life. Sadly, it gives closure to the hope of them returning alive, and closure to their fate but it never closes them in our hearts. One cannot truly express the emotions that erupt when news of remains have been identified. It's years and years of hope, the unknown that turns into final grieving, and it's a hard process.

I'm sure you've read this quote before, but it's worth repeating over and over, "Only two people died for me, both went through hell. Jesus and the Soldier; one died to give me freedom, the other died to save my soul." I thank them both for their sacrifice.

Never forget our fallen soldiers, our missing soldiers, our veterans, our active military personnel and their families. There are still over 1,700 missing soldiers just from the Vietnam war. Thousands and thousands from all wars. Honor them as they have honored you and may God Bless us all.

Today I salute and stand tall in honor and memory of Firebird Nine One crew: Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, WO3 George Andrew Howes, WO1 Wayne C Allen, and WO1 Francis G. Graziosi, all U.S. Army.

Additional MIA Remains Identified of Capt. Herbert C Crosby (my bother)

2010-12-31T10:07:00.000-05:00

Additional remains have been identified of Cpt. Herbert C. Crosby and his Firebird Nine One crew SFC Wayne C. Allen, and SFC Francis G. Graziosi who were previously identified in 1991 and 2006. This latest identification process also produced positive identification of the remaining unidentified crew member, CW3 George A. Howes. Welcome Home Firebird Nine One crew! This is fabulous news, indeed.

The following is a summary from the official report provided to our family on December 18, 2010:
“Available evidence establishes that Cpt. Herbert C. Crosby, CW3 George A. Howes, SFC Wayne C. Allen, and SFC Francis G. Graziosi died in Quang Nam Province, South Vietnam, on 10 January 1970 when their UH-1C Iroquois helicopter crashed in bad weather. In 1988, and again in 1989, the S.R.V. repatriated commingled human remains that they alleged were those of U.S. servicemen. In 1991 some of the remains turned over by the S.R.V. in 1989 were identified as those of SFC Allen. In 1995 additional human remains were recovered from a secondary burial site in Quang Ham Dan Nag Province by U.S. personnel investigating REFNO 1547 [Firebird 91 case]. In 2006 laboratory analysis allowed for some of the 1989 and 1994 remains to be exclusively associated to CPT. Crosby, SFC Allen, and SFC Graziosi to the exclusion of other reasonable possibilities; however, the forensic technology available at the time did not allow for the 1988 remains to be identified. Laboratory analysis now allows for some of the 1988 remains to be identified as those of CW3 George A. Howes to the exclusion of other reasonable possibilities. Similarly, laboratory testing allows for some of the remains to be identified as Additional Remains of CPT Crosby, SFC Allen, and SFC Graziosi.”

George A. [Andy] Howes, 1969, Chu-Lai, Vietnam

Five additional teeth were identified along with two human bone fragments (a right tibia and a right clavicle). Both skeletal elements and two teeth were sampled for mitochondrial DNA (mtDNA) analysis. Blood samples from my sister and myself were used for comparison DNA matching. This additional identification only reconfirms the initial identification (a tooth) in November 2006.

This was a surprise although the Army had told us in 2006 that additional remains may be identified in the future as technology became more advanced. This news just reconfirms the first identification of a single tooth. We are very happy that the other crew members also had additional remains identified, and we are really thrilled that positive identification has been made for Andy Howes, the remaining crew member not yet identified until now. This means the whole Firebird 91 crew is home in America, where they belong. A very merry Christmas gift, indeed.

The additional remains of my brother will be interred April 2011 along with his previous remains which were laid to rest during a military service in Arlington National Cemetery (Section 60, plot 557) in May 2007.

For more information of Cpt. Crosby, visit http://www.firebird91.org/. Also visit http://www.rattler-firebird.org/ memorial pages for each of the crew members. You can do a search on my site here to find many stories of him and how his identification has opened a brave new world for me.

Wreaths Across America - Arlington National Cemetery-Christmas 2010

2010-12-12T19:16:00.000-05:00

Merry Christmas Herby and Brave Warriors. This year's wreath laying at Arlington National Cemetery, as was the past three years I've attended, overwhelming. The beauty, the sorrow, the love, the connecting, the laughter, and oh, yes, the tears. The tears of joy and sorrow, the tears of loss and the tears of hope, and the tears of love and happiness. How can so many emotions come together? Well, they just do when you attend this event.

I have attended the Wreaths Across America wreath laying at Arlington National Cemetery ever since my brother's remains were identified and buried there. Capt. Herbert C. Crosby (my borther) was MIA Vietnam for 37 years. We buried those remains, a tooth, in May 2007, at Arlington National Cemetery. Full military honors it was and a day that I'll never forget.

Each December since then I have been a volunteer for Wreaths Across America organization laying wreaths on the graves of our fallen heroes buried in Arlington National Cemetery. It's not only Arlington that wreaths are now laid, but in veteran's cemeteries across this great country and at U.S. cemeteries across the world. Last year a total of 161,000 thousand wreaths were laid across this great planet Earth. All in honor and rememberance of our fallen heroes of our Armed Forces.

If you have never been to Arlington National Cemetery, I highly recommend you go. It can be any time of the year, doesn't matter when as you will walk away with a heart touched beyond words.

This year, I didn't see my friends I've met from the past three years. They may have been there, but we just didn't see each other as the crowd was large, very large. I arrived just as the opening ceremony was coming to an end and the wreaths were starting to be past out (Metro delays in DC).

I got my wreaths, one for my brother and one for a friend. When I reached my brother's grave in Section 60, I found that his had not yet had a wreath placed on it as people were just starting to place the wreaths. I laid my wreath against the headstone and sat down to visit and meditate for a while. Of course, weak emotional me, I did cry. It seems to be something I have a hard time stopping when I'm there. I do miss him, and I don't know if "closure" ever really comes. It still hurts and I still feel the loss.

I took the other wreath and headed up Porter Drive from Esienhower to find the grave of Danny Phillips. I couldn't remember exactly where it was but asked above and directions were given. Daniel Phillips is still Missing in Action and no remains yet identified. This is his "In Memory" grave. His brother, a Vietnam veteran was unable to make the wreath laying this year, so I made sure that Danny had a wreath.

I went back to Herby's grave to tell him all that had been going on this year with the family. It was a great time, a special time. There were families doing the same thing I was all over Section 60 as this is where the latest graves of our soldiers from Iraq and Afghanistan wars are being buried. It's heart wrenching to experience their fresh loss.

My Wreaths Across America experience at Arlington is the most precious and most wonderful Christmas present I could give or receive. I took many photos and instead of posting them as photos I put them together this slideshow with music. Most all the photos you see with wreaths placed on the graves are of Section 60, where Herby is buried. There is also photos of the soldier's grave who was buried Friday, December 10th, the day before we were there. You'll know which one it is. Please say a short prayer for these fallen heroes' families and all the families of all our fallen defenders. I hope you enjoy the short video.

Wreaths Across America, and I thank all veterans for your service and sacrifice.

We promise to REMEMBER the fallen.

HONOR those that serve and their families and

TEACH our children the value of freedom.

Merry Christmas.

Where the wreaths will be laid-Arlington National Cemetery for Wreaths Across America

2010-12-09T14:44:00.000-05:00

I'm headed to Arlington National Cemetery tomorrow, December 10, to lay wreaths on the graves of our fallen heroes as part of the Wreaths Across America project to Honor, Teach and Remember our fallen veterans from all wars.

This map is of ANC with the Sections highlighted where we will be laying over 24,000 wreaths. Section 60 (on the left) is where most of our Iraq and Afghanistan war dead are buried, and still being buried. In fact, there will be a funeral there tomorrow in Section 60. His grave will be fresh with no headstone yet, but there will be a wreath on his grave this Christmas.

We will be placing wreaths in Section 60 a few minutes later than the other sections to allow volunteers from the USO and TAPS ((Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors) to take some wreaths to survivor family members present in the lower section of Section 60 who will be standing by their respective relative's grave sites at 0915 for their private grieving time and reflection of their loss. While we will honor all those buried in Section 60, we will give these family members present the respect they need to grieve at this time which might be their first holiday without their loved one. It's a most emotional event for everyone.

My brother, Captain Herbert C. Crosby, US Army, MIA 1970, interred May 2007, is buried closer to Eisenhower Drive and York Drive in Section 60. We'll start laying in this area first and move to the back so the families will have time. Of course, many stay long after the wreaths are laid.

This is my fourth year of doing this...it's just hard to stop once you start. Just to be on the hallowed grounds of this cemetery and see the overwhelming rows of graves is extraordinary and such an honor to walk among the graves. The feeling deep within is bone chilling, and not due to the cold weather. It's an awesome feeling. You can start a wreath laying event through Wreaths Across America at your local veteran's cemetery. Visit their site for more information.

I will take photos and post them as soon as I can of this special event. It's the best Christmas present I could ever receive, to pay respect and honor our fallen warriors at Christmastime.

REMEMBER the fallen.

HONOR those that serve and their families and

TEACH your children the value of freedom.

Merry Christmas

2010-12-08T09:20:00.001-05:00

Name on Vietnam POW/MIA Bracelet Identified/Small World

2010-11-13T21:41:00.006-05:00

Some times we say a little saying, "What a small world this is" and then we go on thinking about just what an impact that "small world" had on us when "it" happens to us. Well, this small world happened from the previous post I wrote about titled the 40th anniversary of the POW/MIA bracelets.

A short background first so you'll understand the "small world" in the story. (Names changed to respect their privacy.)

George, the contact representative for the Georgia Patriot Guard Riders contacted me shortly after the press release of my brother's identification in 2006. My brother was MIA for 37 years in Vietnam. Remains were ID'd and he was buried in Arlington National Cemetery, May 25, 2007. George, and his wife Martha came to visit mom, my husband and me to ask permission to guard the line so that no protestor's would harm our funeral in honor of a great hero. That's what the Patriot Guard Riders do, they guard the line between the funeral mourners and the protestors. [Isn't it a shame that we even need this, that people would want to disrepect the United States of America soldiers who sacrificed all to keep them (the protestors) free.]

Well, our family was honored to have the Patriot Guard a part of my brother's funeral. They came from many states of our great country to protect our family and guests from protesters. It was truly an honor to meet and now know personally many of these men and women.

So, back to the bracelets. You must read the previous story I wrote about the 40th anniversary of the POW/MIA bracelets, and in that story link to the information about Guy Johnson, MIA from 1965. It's a great, yet sad story, and ends with such an emotional family connection. I will not say more, but invite you to read it.

I sent out an email to all my family, friends, and veteran friends about the anniversary of the bracelets. One of these veterans (Rick) read the article and it truly touched home for him. Here is what he wrote back to me:

Now, I have a story to share with you….
I came home today thinking about the MIA bracelets. I was able to read your email at work but the computer there does not allow me to go to certain websites or links.

Anyway, I took out a bracelet that I have had for years. I have checked periodically over the years to see if his status has been changed. So far, he is still listed as KIA, remains not recovered.

The name on my bracelet is LCDR Lee Nordahl. I went to your website and started reading. I quickly noticed that you had a pilot’s name, Guy Johnson, from the KittyHawk. He went MIA 12/20/65.

The bracelet that I have had all these years belongs to Guy Johnson’s co-pilot!

Small world. I found a bracelet that my father had with Guy Johnson's name on it and my posting of it directed a link to his story which in turn led Rick to find out who the name on his bracelet was. We all helped each other and we all had a connection. It was just a matter of time before it all came to be. Another Divine Appointment I'd say. I'm so happy that now Rick knows a little more about the name on his bracelet.

Small world isn't it? Never forget our fallen heroes, and never give up hope. Some day a large world will turn out to be such a small beautiful world of love.

40th Anniversary of the POW/MIA Bracelets

2010-11-11T09:53:00.002-05:00

Today, Veterans Day, November 11, 2010, is the 40th anniversary of the POW/MIA bracelets.

"The bracelets were distributed by VIVA (Voices in Vital America) a non-profit, non-political national student organization dedicated to the fact that progress and freedom can only be achieved and maintained by rational and responsible action."
"Over 1500 Americans are either Prisoners of War of Missing in Action in Southeast Asia.Aside from the inhumane treatment witnessed by those few who have returned, the most tragic aspect is that most of the families of these men do not know if their sons, husbands, or fathers are alive or dead. Hanoi won't tell them.
This bracelet honors the man whose name is inscribed and includes the date he was lost. It should be worn with the vow that it will not be removed until the day the Red Cross is allowed into Hanoi and can assure his family of his status and that he receives the humane treatment due all men."

Those words were taken directly from a small card that came with the bracelets back in the 70s and 80s. I have two original bracelets that I recently found in a box of items my father had that had been packed away for years.

The two men whose names are on these bracelets have been accounted for. Sgt. Gary Pate MIA May 22, 1968, identified March 13, 2009, buried with crew/group in Arlington National Cemetery June 2010. I hope to visit his grave this December when I again volunteer to lay wreaths on the graves with Wreaths Across America. I'm sure this grave is in Section 60 (where my brother is buried) because that's where all the new burials are being placed. You can also find Sgt. Pate's name on the most recent "accounted for" list at the DPMO Office.
The other bracelet is for Cdr. Guy Johnson, MIA December 20, 1965. He was identified and laid to rest in 1977 also at Arlington National Cemetery. His story, his family story after his return is awesome. I don't know why these bracelets were not worn, as one of them is still in the original unopened package. I guess it's because dad was always wearing one with the name of his son [my brother] on it. I am going to locate the families and send them the bracelets.

My brother Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, US Army, MIA 1970, was a name on a bracelet for over 37 years. Through God’s grace our prayers were answered and Herby was laid to rest in Arlington National Cemetery May 25, 2007. After the press release of his identification, I was contacted by many people who had a bracelet with his name on it. We’ve received almost 20 so far, and as recent as August 2010.
Displayed on his flag with other cherished items are four of the many we have received. My mother who is now in a nursing home wears one all the time that we received in August.

Each person has a story that goes along with the bracelet. One lady was cleaning her jewelry drawer out and found the bracelet. She wondered what happened to Capt. Crosby. The next day on the front page of her local (Idaho) newspaper was a photo of the horse and caisson carrying his flag covered coffin at his funeral and his story…this was on the very day she found the bracelet . She later personally returned the bracelet to my mother in Florida.

One of my brother’s comrades was making a plaque to present to our family from the veteran’s association of pilots he flew with in Vietnam (http://www.rattler-firebird.org/) need a bracelet for the plaque so did an internet search finding the office of National League of POW/MIAs in Ohio. He called asking if there was a way to find a bracelet with a specific name (needle in a hay stack). The State Coordinator asked who it was. He told her Capt. Crosby. She said, “he’s on my arm!” She had worn his bracelet continuously since 1973. How ironic? Divine Appointment I’d say. This lady had also met my mother years ago at a POW/MIA meeting in Boston. She never took it off, even when going through airport security, except for once to have an MRI done. My brother she said had met some fantastic people over the years, and traveled over a good part of the globe. This is probably the most touching story because she wore that bracelet all the time.

A Vietnam veteran from Jacksonville, Florida, had a bracelet on his office desk all these years. When he found out the news he returned it, and also attended the funeral at Arlington National Cemetery (May 2007).

There are so many stories to tell but the fact is that people cared. They cared then and were brave enough to wear the bracelet, and they still care and still wear a bracelet.

When someone comes across their bracelet they’ll do an Internet search and that’s how they’re finding me as I have a website dedicated to my brother at http://www.firebird91.org/. Also, there are now many veteran websites with the updated news that he is no longer MIA.

I have given most bracelets to family members who have asked to have one. My mother is wearing one of the more recent ones that came in this year.

Thank you everyone who wore, or is still wearing a POW/MIA bracelet. Never forget our fallen heroes.
Read here about the Origin of original POW bracelets. to learn how they came to be.

Dave Berner is a documentary producer. His most recent audio work is FINDING MY KEROUAC and PEBBLE BEACH STORIES. He is also the author of Accidental Lessons: A Memoir of a Rookie Teacher and a Life Renewed, along with hundreds of magazine articles and broadcast reports for CBS Radio Chicago, NPR, and ABC radio.. He teaches at Columbia College Chicago.

Dave interviewed me while putting together a documentary about the bracelets last year although his final piece was on one family's story. You can find more information at http://braceletsofgrace.blogspot.com/ His radio documentary about the POW/MIA bracelets of the Vietnam War era - BRACELETS OF GRACE will be aired on 11/11 on the Prairie Public Network. This is a large network of public radio stations, some 8-12 stations. They will be airing an edited version of the documentary at 3:30pm and 7:30pm central time tomorrow, November 11.
The broadcast can be listened to through station streaming at this site -http://www.prairiepublic.org/radio/listen-now/ If you have time listen in.

Happy Anniversary POW/MIA bracelets. I'm sorry you're still in need, yet I'm happy you are still around to remind us all that we shall NEVER FORGET our fallen, from all wars.

Honoring our Veterans-Thank you!

2010-11-10T15:40:00.000-05:00

Thank you veterans for all your service, your sacrifices, your honor and your courage.

I ask those who are reading this to visit this Veterans Affairs website and view the video honoring our veterans this year. It is good. You can download posters there also, and get some great information.

Included in the video is mention of the Honor Flight, which I'm sure most of you have heard of. It's a non-profit organization created solely to honor America's veterans for all their sacrifices. They transport our heroes to Washington, D.C. to visit and reflect at their memorials. Top priority is given to the senior veterans from World War II, along with terminally ill veterans.

It's a wonderful day for these men and women to visit their memorials, remember their comrades, tell their stories and reflect. It's a one day trip so a lot is a long day packed with many emotions and events, and it's a day they will never forget. It brings tears to my eyes now knowing how these heroes must feel when they see their memorials. I know how I feel when I see them and I'm not a veteran, but I am an American Patriot.

We have Honor Flight Brevard in our Space Coast area and they need your support as it costs about $400 for each veteran and escort for the day trip. Well worth it. if you live in this area visit our local Honor Flight Brevard and help, donate. Brevard had our first Honor Flight in October and more are to come, with your support.

Check for an Honor Flight in your area as I'm sure there is one close by. Just do it...you'll be glad you did. You can even volunteer to be an escort. With over one thousand World War II veterans dying each day, our time to express our thanks to these men and women is running out.

My salute to every veteran, and their families. Thank you for your service.

2010-11-08T15:41:00.000-05:00

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The Ride Home 2010

2010-10-09T20:10:00.000-04:00

Black Monday, September 22, 1969

2010-09-22T13:05:00.001-04:00

I published this post last two years, but it's a good one to repeat. Flamingo 91 is remembering all who fought, died, and survived on Black Monday, Vietnam, September 22, 1969. A day that changed lives.

Read the Rattler- Firebird stories about that day here :

"Black Monday" by David Harris (EM 69)

"Black Monday" as witnessed by Earl Ingram (OF)

"Black Monday, The Rest of the Story" by Col. Wm (Whiz) Broome (WO)

Blessings to our warriors from all wars.

POW/MIA Recognition Day 2010

2010-09-06T11:43:00.000-04:00

Never forget. Teach your children.

National League of POW/MIA Families

Defense Prisoner of War/Missing Personnel Office (DPMO)

Rolling Thunder's The Ride Home
(The Chapters of Rolling Thunder® host a special weekend to honor all former Prisoners Of War and to remember those still Missing In Action.
September 16-19, 2010, Andersonville, Georgia. The National Museum of POW/MIAs.
This event is held in conjunction with the National POW/MIA Recognition Day 2010.)

The Rolling Thunder National

Flamingo 91 is remembering the crew of Firebird 91, lost January 10, 1970, South Vietnam. All but one have been repatriated, identified and buried now in American soil. The remaining crew member, CWO George Andrews Howes (Andy) is still unaccounted for. Although declared dead in later years he is still Missing in Action. He is still in our hearts and prayers. He is still never forgotten. He is still our brother. He is still in our hearts, and will always be in God's hands, forever and ever.

Basking in Patriot Beauty

2010-07-16T10:34:00.001-04:00

Enjoying a summer bouquet. I took a photo of a bouquet of flowers I made to brighten things up for summer and gave it a illustration look. Basking in patriot beauty.

Happy Birthday Buddy!

2010-06-16T18:21:00.023-04:00

Who's your Buddy?

Buddy Wade!

Buddy celebrating his 1st birthday in his new Buddy Boat.

Buddy on his birth day...May 25, 2009 (Memorial Day 2009)

My how they grow up quickly.

Rattler Firebird Reunion 2010-Nashville, TN

2010-06-06T19:12:00.001-04:00

WOW! What a wonderful time I had at the Rattler Firebird Reunion in Nashville, TN, this May. This year I sat in the Gunner's seat of a Huey gunship. This particular gunship actually flew in combat in Vietnam...no replica here. It's the same type of Huey my brother, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby piloted. Last year I sat in the pilot seat and got a feel for what it was like sitting in that powerful control seat. I can't imagine the feeling the Firebirds must of had in action during the war.

Take a look at some of the photos I took during the reunion. It was the most exciting, emotional, happy, and brotherly event I've ever attended.

This year's guest speaker at the banquet was Michael Durrant. [Michael J. "Mike" Durant is an American pilot and author who was held prisoner after a raid in Mogadishu, Somalia on October 3, 1993. Durant served in the United States Army 160th Special Operations Aviation Regiment (Night Stalkers) as a Chief Warrant Officer 3. He retired from the Army as a Chief Warrant Officer 4 Blackhawk helicopter Master Aviator in the 160th SOAR after participating in combat operations Prime Chance, Just Cause, Desert Storm, and Gothic Serpent. His awards include the Distinguished Service Medal, Distinguished Flying Cross with Oak Leaf Cluster, Bronze Star with Valor Device, Purple Heart, Meritorious Service Medal, three Air Medals, POW Medal, and numerous others.]

I had the pleasure of meeting Mike and getting his book, "In the Company of Heroes" which he personally autographed for me. Not only that, my husband and I sat next to him at the guest of honor table at the reunion banquet Saturday evening, May 15. It was such an honor to talk personally with him during our dinner. He's an awesome man, a person of genuine being who will ever remain special to me for his devotion to God, our country and fellow man.

Although Nashville was in the beginning of recovery stages from the terrible flood we had a great reunion. The Sheraton Music Center was absolutely wonderful and accomodating to us. Nashville was beautiful and full of life recovering from the flood. A little, no a lot of water, will not keep Nashville from being it's grand glory of country music. I missed the riverboat tour ride which had been cancelled...I hear it is an excellent tour to do. Dan and I are definitely going back to Nashville after recovery to enjoy all the sites.

Since the Grand Ole Opry house was under repair from the flood it show was moved elsewhere, the show must go on. And yes, it did. We attended the Grand Ole Opry Friday evening at the Twin Rivers Baptist Church which was basically across the street from The Grand Ole Opry. What an awesome experience to be in the audience for a live radio broadcast which included country and bluegrass favorites. The ending act was Charlie Daniels and I'm telling you now, he was fantastic. That man can play the fiddle, indeed. There wasn't a foot still, nor a heart not beating to the rhythm, nor one not singing with all the fabulous music that entertained us throughout the show.

I had so many wonderful experiences and little stories on the side that I won't include here because they need the full attention of them on their own.

I had the most wonderful experience though of attending the Rattler Firebird Reunion 2010 in Nashville. I lost one brother 40 years ago, yet his loss has brought to me a whole Battalion and Company of brothers that I am so blessed to be a part of. I know that if I'm ever in need, all I have to do is call one of these brothers and the whole Battalion will come. They have saved my life. Thank you Rattlers and Firebirds. You are my heroes. You are! ml

A Soldier in Panama, Salute to our Fallen Warriors

2010-05-30T20:08:00.001-04:00

Today, as every day, I remember our fallen military men and women, our courageous warriors who defended freedom, righteouness, and democracy from all wars. It's a terrible thing that we have wars to begin with. Yet, not lost, our love is to the freedom of life, religion and to convey our opinions in democracy. No man feels differently unless he has no belief in freedom, whether his/her understanding of it is different than his neighbor.

I thank all our veterans who have sacrificed their lives in serving our country in the name of freedom, and our flag, for which it stands for. I thank all our living veterans and all our active military personnel in respect and honor of what they do, and why. Yet, today, traditional Memorial Day, I thank God for those who throught the years gave their ultimate sacrifice to start our country and to defend our country, the wonderful United States of America.

I found this poem in a box of memoriabilia that belonged to my father, Herb Crosby, who is on my mind every day. Dad served in World War Two enlisting January 10, 1941, in the US Army Air Corp. He was 20 years old at the time. (Ironically, he enlisted on the same month and day (January 10) that his first born, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, US Army, lost his life while in service to his country in Vietnam, listed as Missing in Action for 37 years.) Dad served until 1945, returning with deep memories of his time in the Panama Canal Zone, Panama. I have searched the internet to see if the poem was his own or a copy of someone elses that protrayed his, and his comrades, agony and dispare. The handwriting on the poem is my father's, indeed. Yet, I do not know if it is truly of his creating or not.

The poem sends its message without interpretation (I have typed it exactly as written):

A Soldier in Panama

Down where there are no 10 Commandments,

And a man can raise a thirst,

Lies the outcast of civilization,

the victims of life at its worst.

Down on the gin soaked Isthmus are

the men that God forgot.

Battling the snakes, mosquitos, itch

and Chinese rot.

Nobody knows they're living, and

nobody gives a damn.

Back home these soon forgotten,

those boys of Uncle Sam,

living with the natives,

Down in the sweltering sun

Down by the man-made river,

3000 miles from home.

Drenched with sweat in the evenings

they sit on their bunks and dream,

killing themselves with liquor,

to dam up memories stream.

May all veterans, from all wars be respectfully honored for their service, their courage, their perseverance, their love of country, and for many their ultimate sacrifice. Decorate their graves with honor.

With esteemed heartfelt love to all veterans. God bless you and your families, past, present and future. You were and are true American heroes.

Remembering Capt. Crosby-May 25, 2007

2010-05-25T12:23:00.000-04:00

It was a Friday, May 25, 2007. I was attending my brother's funeral at Arlington National Cemetery. I remember that day so well, and will never forget it either. The end to a long 37 years of heartache, hope and wondering had arrived.

You see, my brother, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby was listed Missing in Action, South Vietnam, January 10, 1970. His remains were repatriated January 1989, however, positive identification did not happen until 2006. Since Herby was born on Memorial Day (May 30, 1947) our family decided to bury his remains as close to his birthday as possible.

So on Friday, May 25, 2007, he was finally laid to rest in American soil and in one of the most hallowed grounds of our warriors. Miss you and so glad you're home.

Rattlers and Firebirds Final Salute

'Well done, good and faithful servant!"

Rattler-Firebird Reunion - 2008

2010-04-12T21:49:00.001-04:00

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Walking Back in Time - Alexandria, Virginia

2010-02-14T14:16:00.003-05:00

On my trip to Arlington National Cemetery as part of the Wreaths Across America event I visited Alexandria, Virginia, George Washington’s hometown. Founded 1749, Alexandria’s colonial architecture remains as charming today as it must have been over 200 years ago. In the cold wind that day I could hear patriot whispers of great discussion, faint laughter of shoppers, and echoes of children playing while I walked down the cobblestone streets. I felt I was walking back in time.

The Old Presbyterian Meeting House, organized 1772, was my first stop. The churchyard contains many patriot graves, along with the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier of the American Revolution. The chiseled epitaph reads: “Here lies a soldier of the Revolution whose identity is known but to God. He was an idealism that recognized a Supreme Being, that planted religious liberty on our shores, that overthrew despotism, that established a people’s government, that wrote a Constitution setting metes and bounds of delegated authority, that fixed a standard of value upon men above gold and lifted high the torch of civil liberty along the pathway of mankind. In ourselves this should exist as part of ours, his memory’s mansion.”

I thanked our patriots for their devotion, courage and sacrifice to establish freedom of the United States of America.

I walked on to Gadsby’s Tavern, circa 1785, and adjoining City Hotel (1792) for lunch. The City Hotel is now the restaurant, while the tavern serves as a museum. The tavern was the center of political, social and cultural life in Alexandria, serving many American independence founders including George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, James Madison and James Monroe. I lunched on authentic colonial fare in the very rooms which held birthnight balls for George Washington and an inaugural party for Thomas Jefferson.

After lunch, I walked to George Washington’s Town House, built in 1769. The structure had been razed in 1855 and rebuilt in 1960 on its original foundation. It is now a private home. A neighbor decorating his front door for the holidays explained that the back of his home had been Washington's original kitchen/slave quarters. Can you imagine living in such a historical home?

Alexandria City Hall and Market Square on King Street once was the site where Washington drilled his soldiers. It’s now home to city government and one of the nation’s oldest continually operating farmer’s markets, established in 1753. Unfortunately, I was there a day too soon for the market.

My final stop was the Christ Episcopal Church where most of our U.S. presidents have worshiped at least one time. I was greeted by a DAR sister who graciously told me the history of the church, which was completed in 1773. I sat in Washington’s private boxed pew, the only one preserved in its original state. I also sat in Robert E. Lee’s boxed pew.

There wasn't enough time to visit the many beautiful, historical sites. Which begs another trip to Alexandria. A wonderful Christmas present this trip was, indeed.

See more photos of my trip here.

Honoring our Fallen at Arlington National Cemetery

2010-01-24T16:29:00.001-05:00

The Wreaths Across America (WAA) story began over 19 years ago when Merrill Worcester began a tradition of placing wreaths during the holidays on the graves of our nation's fallen heroes at Arlington National Cemetery (ANC).
Last December [2009] 161,000 wreaths were donated to not only Arlington and veteran cemeteries across the nation and world. The WAA mission is: Remember the fallen; Honor those who serve; Teach our children the value of freedom.

For the third year I was honored lay wreaths at Arlington. Last year over 6,000 volunteers placed approximately 16,000 wreaths at Arlington. My brother Captain Herbert C. Crosby, US Army, is buried there. He was Missing in Action, Vietnam, January 10, 1970. Over 37 years later his remains were officially identified, and he was buried with full military honors on May 25, 2007. I laid a wreath on his grave also.

I’ve met many wonderful families, veterans, patriotic citizens and have made new acquaintances each year. Many of them are repeat volunteers. This year I met the former President of the Maine Society of the Sons of the American Revolution. He was dressed in revolutionary war uniform and traveled with the caravan of trucks from Maine to Washington, stopping in small towns along the way, while more biker patriots join the caravan as escorts.

I felt overwhelming humility while walking the hallowed cemetery ground, placing a wreath, saying a prayer, and honoring our fallen defenders of liberty. It is an experience I will never forget. Tears of joy, love and loss all in the same moment. It was priceless.

Remembering Firebird 91 and Crew

2010-01-10T16:41:00.001-05:00

Today is the 40th anniversary of the loss of Firebird 91 and crew.

Looking Back...from the Donalsonville News, issue of January 15, 1970.

"Capt. Herby Crosby has been reported as missing in action in Vietnam since Saturday, January 10. He was a pilot on a gunship in a helicopter squadron and went overseas on February 12, 1969...No other details of the young man's fate were known as The News goes to press. The entire community joins in prayer that he will be found safe, soon."

There was no safe, but thankfully "soon" came some 37 years later, November 28, 2006, when his remains were officially identified. He was buried May 25, 2007, at Arlington National Cemetery with full military honors. It was a day I will never forget, just as the day when our family was visited by Army officials telling us of Herby's status.

Our family was one of a fortunate few who have been able to find some closure. We are so thankful our prayers were answered. I can't begin to write now about how the answered prayers have changed many lives, but they have. The 37 years were meant to unfold exactly as they have with bringing together new friends and family.

There is still one person unaccounted for from the Firebird 91 crew and that is WO George Andrew (Andy) Howes (co-pilot). I pray now for him and his family that he will be accounted for soon and ask you do the same. Andy will never be forgotten, nor all the POW/MIAs who so bravely gave their lives for us all. There are over 1,700 of our warriors from the Vietnam "conflict" who are still Missing in Action. Never forget.

Wonderful memories will always be with me of my brother Herby. He was loved by many. We miss him, and remember him today, as every day.

Alexandria, Virginia - December 2009

2010-01-01T20:57:00.001-05:00

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Happy New Year Jamboree!

2009-12-31T16:37:00.001-05:00

Flamingo 91 has called in her swamp friends for a Hoppin' New Year Jamboree! Join in as we celebrate ringing in 2010! Grab your partner, dance to the music, and count your blessings.

Happy New Year everyone!

Indian River Chapter DAR Paws for Patriots Luncheon

2009-11-17T16:15:00.015-05:00

Flamingo 91 was honored to be co-hostess today for the monthly meeting of the Indian River Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revol ution. This particular meeting included a luncheon with our guest speaker being the DAR Florida state Regent, Barbara Whalin Makant.

This was the first time I wore my "official" DAR ribbon with insignia and patriot bar. I am so honored to be a part of this organization. Here's a photo of me with Barbara.

We had a great meeting which started with our DAR ritual of reciting together: "To perpetuate the memory and spirit of the men and women who achieved American Independence; to promote the development of an enlightened public opinion; and to foster Patriotic Citizenship-these are the objects of our Society, Daughters of the American Revolution." We also recited the preamble to the U.S. Constitution and pledged allegiance to the flag, all normal practice at each meeting.

Barbara spoke to us concerning her charity for the state level of DAR. It's the Paws for Patriots program through the Southeastern Guide Dogs organization. They provide mobility with independence and dignity for our veterans with visual impairments. It's a huge help for these veterans who have sacrificed so much. Take time to read about the program and help if you can. These dogs are a life-changing event to a veteran.

Since I was co-hostess I was in charge of coming up with centerpieces and favors. I put the ole thinker to work using the Paws for Patriots theme and came up with little paw flowers in a doggie bowl. This was so much fun to do and was super inexpensive. The favors were little doggie bags.

We voted in a new project of saluting our neighbors and businesses for their patriotism in flying the American flag. As we ride around our town and neighborhoods and see a flag being flown we will "salute" them with a special postcard thanking them. So if you live in the area, get your flags out. And, please don't forget the proper protocol for flying that flag.

"The whole inspiration of our life as a nation flows out from the waving folds
of this banner." (Author Unknown)

Today we also honored four members, three serving 25 years of membership and one with 40 years of membership. Congratulations fellow sisters!

NSDAR Motto: "God, Home and Country." Learn to see if you are also a DAR member. There are more of us here than realize it, so take a step back in your family history to find out. You'll be helping the future of our country from your past.

Salute to our Veterans - Veteran's Day 2009

2009-11-10T22:40:00.000-05:00

Happy Veteran's Day!

My family is very grateful for our veteran's service and sacrifice, and we know what this day truly means. I can't imagine how our country would be without you, your veteran's courage, honor, and sacrifice throughout our nation's history.

To not only my Rattler and Firebird Veterans and friends (I love you all, brothers), but to all Veterans, including active duty military, know that our family STANDS TALL FOR YOU! We honor you this Veteran's Day for the true heroes you are. May our children's children and on down the line never forget our valiant heroes sacrifices. Thank you veterans.

Last year I wanted to post something special for you all, a special prayer actually so I asked a dear friend of ours, Chaplain (Col) William "Whiz" Broome, for his help. Here is his prayer for you all. Thank you, Whiz! It's such a powerful and beautiful prayer that I'm reposting it again this year (and probably every year).

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VETERAN’S DAY INVOCATION
11 NOV 2008
CH (COL) WILLIAM “WHIZ” BROOME

I would like to begin my prayer with a quotation by Mark Twain that I believe captures the ideal of the military patriot on this day of honor and remembrance for our Veterans:
In the beginning of a change, the patriot is a scarce man, and brave, and hated and scorned. When his cause succeeds, the timid join him, for then it costs nothing to be a patriot. ~Mark Twain, Notebook, 1935
Almighty Father, Our Protector and Defender,

We seek Your divine blessing upon our Veterans and their families as we set aside this day to remember and honor their sacred service. They braved the hardships, the danger and the sacrifice, in the highest example of our Lord, to bring the bounty of freedom’s harvest to an anxious world. No tyrant was ever too strong or to powerful for the Veteran to vanquish in the name of liberty and justice for all.

They fought the foe on ships that set to sea; no land was ever won or held without the Soldier’s sacrifice; brave aviators trod the high untresspassed sanctity of space, put out their hands and touched the face of God. Each one is a hero, each one suffering a wound, many of which are never seen.

We thank our Patriots for their vision, their heart felt acts of bravery and courage, and especially for those who paid with their very lives that we might live in the light of free will and sovereignty. Father, be with those who are serving today, at home, abroad and in particular those fighting a life and death battle for democracy in Iraq and Afghanistan. Thank you for our hope and the great nation of America, may she ever be a light for mankind. I pray these requests in the Name that is above all Names, Jesus Christ. Amen
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Thank a Veteran today, and every time you see a soldier or a veteran, shake their hand and thank them. You'll love the feeling, they will too, and it's contagious!

God Bless the United States of America and our Veterans. I proudly salute you all. Flamingo 91.

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Below is the official Veteran's Day Proclamation from The White House:

THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the Press Secretary
For Immediate Release October 30, 2009
VETERANS DAY, 2009
BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION
We have a sacred trust with those who wear the uniform of the United States of America. From the Minutemen who stood watch over Lexington and Concord to the service members whoserved in Iraq and Afghanistan, American veterans deserve ourdeepest appreciation and respect. Our Nation's servicemen and women are our best and brightest, enlisting in times ofpeace and war, serving with honor under the most difficultcircumstances, and making sacrifices that many of us cannotbegin to imagine. Today, we reflect upon the invaluablecontributions of our country's veterans and reaffirm ourcommitment to provide them and their families with theessential support they were promised and have earned.
Caring for our veterans is more than a way of thankingthem for their service. It is an obligation to our fellowcitizens who have risked their lives to defend our freedom. This selflessness binds our fates with theirs, and recognizingthose who were willing to give their last full measure ofdevotion for us is a debt of honor for every American.
We also pay tribute to all who have worn the uniform andcontinue to serve their country as civilians. Many veteransact as coaches, teachers, and mentors in their communities,selflessly volunteering their time and expertise. They visitschools to tell our Nation's students of their experiences andhelp counsel our troops returning from the theater of war.These men and women possess an unwavering belief in the ideaof America: no matter where you come from, what you looklike, or who your parents are, this is a place where anythingis possible. Our veterans continue to stand up for thosetimeless American ideals of liberty, self-determination, andequal opportunity.
On Veterans Day, we honor the heroes we have lost, andwe rededicate ourselves to the next generation of veterans bysupporting our Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines, and CoastGuardsmen as they return home from duty. Our grateful Nationmust keep our solemn promises to these brave men and women andtheir families. They have given their unwavering devotion tothe American people, and we must keep our covenant with them.
With respect for and in recognition of the contributionsour servicemen and women have made to the cause of peaceand freedom around the world, the Congress has provided(5 U.S.C. 6103(a)) that November 11 of each year shall beset aside as a legal public holiday to honor our Nation'sveterans.
NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of theUnited States of America, do hereby proclaim November 11,2009, as Veterans Day. I encourage all Americans to recognizethe valor and sacrifice of our veterans through appropriatepublic ceremonies and private prayers. I call upon Federal,State, and local officials to display the flag of theUnited States and to participate in patriotic activities intheir communities. I call on all Americans, including civicand fraternal organizations, places of worship, schools, andcommunities to support this day with commemorative expressionsand programs.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand thisthirtieth day of October, in the year of our Lordtwo thousand nine, and of the Independence of theUnited States of America the two hundred and thirty-fourth.
BARACK OBAMA
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Crosby Boat Restored to her Glory

2009-09-28T19:22:00.008-04:00

Wow, isn't she lovely! Of course, I am a little prejudice since I am a Crosby, this boat is a Crosby and my dad used to build these boats. I sure would love to have one of these babies of my own now. And, gee, being a Crosby, why don't I have one? Seems I've got some boat hunting to do in the old garages and backyards of former boat owners. I bet there are a few of these gems still around.

The fiberglass beauty here is a Crosby "Fish and Ski" 16 foot, 7 inch trim and sleek sweet thing built in 1958 or 1959. Ain't she sweet, indeed!

My cousin, Mandy, from Fort Wayne (where the magazine is published), just happened to pick up an issue of the Northern Indiana LAKES magazine earlier this summer when she saw "Crosby" written on the front of the magazine. There was a great article titled "The Allure of the Crosby" in the July magazine about a Crosby boat which had been rescued from a garage and restored to it's full glory. Take a look at the magazine's website for the whole article or magazine subscription. (They've got some really neat articles and I've just started my subscription to keep up on the fun on Indiana's lakes.)

The photographer of these photos is Joe Albright, and the author of the article in the July issue is Frank Hill. Great photos, Joe, and great article Frank! How could you go wrong with a Crosby beauty like this? No way.

Seems that the son of the original owner found this Crosby in his father's garage in northern Michigan. The son saw a beauty in hiding and knew she had to be cleaned up. He even took a risk and started the engine to see what would happen. Yes, indeed, that Mercury motor started right up, even after 10 years sitting idle in the garage.

It needed lots of TLC to bring it back to life, and the perfect person was found to do this. Tom Miller, my cousin by marriage, of Fiberglass Products and Boat Repair, in St. Joe, Indiana, was the guy to do the restoration. Tom worked for Crosby boats for decades so he knew and loved these boats. I'd say he did a fabulous job in restoring this beauty. My word, yes, indeed. She is a beauty. Great work Tom!

Tom's father-in-law was Ab Crosby (my uncle) who started the Crosby Aeromarine in the late 40s. Uncle Ab is my dad's brother. Dad went into business with Uncle Ab and started a boat factory in Donalsonville, Georgia, in 1958. I was three years old at the time when we moved to Georgia so dad could start the factory. Crosby Aeromarine was one of the largest fiberglass boat manufacturers in the United States at one time.

Of course, just about everyone in Donalsonville had a Crosby boat and what a great time we all had at The Boat Club! I do remember wonderful, fun boat trips from Lake Seminole down the Apalachicola River, through the Inter Coastal Waterway to Panama City, Florida, every July 4th weekend. Well, most of us remember some of the trip! Yes, that's another story some day!

Needless to say, our family grew up boating. It was a wonderful thing too. I sure do miss boating and skiing as I don't have a boat, but...someday maybe again.

I learned to water ski though in Indiana on Lake Tippecanoe, which is where this Crosby Fish & Ski spent her glory years. Wow, I probably saw this boat at some time during one of my summer stays at Lake Tippecanoe.

Just a little reminiscing of Flamingo 91's earlier days on Lake Tippecanoe and a Crosby boat. Isn't she lovely? Indeed, indeed.

Gold Star Mothers Day

2009-09-27T18:29:00.004-04:00

Today is Gold Star Mothers Day. The first national Gold Star Mothers Day was observed the last Sunday in September, 1936. The term Gold Star Mother refers to any mother who has lost a child in the service of our country. Gold Stars are not limited however to just women, as it includes brothers, husbands, stepsons, of men and women who have lost their lives in the service of our country.
I have a Gold Star, along with my mother, my sister, and my younger brother given to us on behalf of President George W. Bush, May 24, 2007, at the burial of my brother, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, US Army. He was MIA, January 10, 1970, repatriated, January 27, 1986, and buried Arlington National Cemetery, May 25, 2007. It is an honor to wear this pin in respect of him, and all our defenders of freedom from all wars.

Take time to visit the American Gold Star Mothers website to find out more about this organization, and the people it represents. There is some really good history here to read.

Proclamation by the President of the United States
Whereas the preamble to Public Resolution 123, 74th Congress, approved June 23, 1936 (40 Stat. 1895), recites:

Whereas the service rendered the United States by the American mother is the greatest source of the Country’s strength and inspiration; and “Whereas we honor ourselves and the mothers of America when we revere and give emphasis to the home as the fountainhead of the State; and

“Whereas the American mother is doing so much for the home and for the moral and spiritual uplift of the people of the United States and hence so much for good government and humanity; and

“Whereas the American Gold Star Mothers suffered the supreme sacrifice of motherhood in the loss of their sons and daughters in World Wars”

and Whereas the said Public Resolution 12 provides:

“That the President of the United States is hereby authorized and requested to issue a proclamation calling upon the Government officials to display the United States flag on all Government buildings, and the people of the United States to display the flag and to hold appropriate meetings in their homes, churches, or other suitable places, on the last Sunday in September, as public expression of the love, sorrow and reverence of the people of the United States for the American Gold Star Mothers."

“Sec. 2. That the last Sunday in September shall hereafter be designated and known as “Gold Star Mother’s Day,” and it shall be the duty of the President to request its observance as provided for in this resolution.”

Remembering Black Monday, September 22, 1969

2009-09-22T14:59:00.005-04:00

I published this post last year, but it's a good one to repeat. Flamingo 91 is remembering all who fought, died, and survived on Black Monday, Vietnam, September 22, 1969. A day that changed lives.

Read the Rattler- Firebird stories about that day here :

"Black Monday" by David Harris (EM 69)

"Black Monday" as witnessed by Earl Ingram (OF)

"Black Monday, The Rest of the Story" by Col. Wm (Whiz) Broome (WO)

Blessings to our warriors from all wars.

National POW/MIA Recognition Day 2009

2009-09-18T09:16:00.005-04:00

The following was taken directly from the National League of Families website giving you information concerning today. I urge you to visit this site and do what you can. I ask for you today to please take time to at least view the Joint POW/MIA Account Command Task Force Video so you will get an idea of what's involved in finding our unaccounted for warriors, and how you can help. It's very informative and moving.

Firebird 91 flight crew member, Andy Howes, is the only remaining crew member still unaccounted for from that tragic day January 10, 1970, when their Huey flew into the clouds and never appeared again. God bless all the Unaccounted Warriors from all wars. NEVER FORGET! Flamingo 91

NATIONAL LEAGUE OF FAMILIES

OF AMERICAN PRISONERS AND MISSING IN SOUTHEAST ASIA

1005 NORTH GLEBE ROAD, SUITE 170, ARLINGTON, VIRGINIA 22201

PH (703) 465-7432 www.powmialeague.org FAX (703) 465-7433

2009 NATIONAL POW/MIA RECOGNITION DAY

September 18, 2009 is likely to be proclaimed by President Barack Obama as National POW/MIA Recognition Day. Over the past several years, all or most of the 50 states have proclaimed POW/MIA Recognition Day in conjunction with the national effort. Please contact your Governor, ask for his/her support and for a copy of your state’s proclamation!

Across the country, local POW/MIA ceremonies are encouraged throughout POW/MIA Recognition Week, culminating with countless events and the national ceremony in Washington, DC. Support for these missing Americans and their families is deeply felt. America’s POW/MIAs should be honored and recognized, rather than memorialized, with the focus on the need to account as fully as possible for those still missing, alive or dead. Strong, united support by the American people is crucial to achieving concrete answers, and now is the time to start planning for this year’s ceremonies. The American people can make the difference.

Remember: Involving the state-level Department of Veterans Affairs, plus state, district and local veterans organizations, is the key to a successful event. Publicity must be a priority; otherwise attendance will be minimal. To enable the League to accurately respond to media inquiries and measure national awareness impact, please send information regarding activities to League Communications Chairman for these activities, Gail Innes, by email at g.innes@sbcglobal.net, mail to her at 1360 Sandburg Terrace, Apt. 1002-C, Chicago, IL 60610, or call 312-587-8153.

For guidance: Contact your League state coordinator or check the League’s web site: www.POWMIALeague.org. Additional assistance can be sought from state and local governments, military and veteran organizations, ROTC, church groups, civic clubs, etc. A POW/MIA awareness contact should be available at each military installation, and invitations should be extended for military attendance and participation in these events.

To get media coverage: Contact local and state newspapers, magazines, military, church and school publications at least four weeks prior to Recognition Day. Send information packets, available from the League office, to editors, bureau chiefs, columnists and feature editors. If possible, contact a journalist who has written responsible articles on the POW/MIA issue. Write letters to the editor, outlining scheduled events and encouraging community participation.

Advertising: Develop posters and/or flyers to advertise local activities in the windows of area businesses. National POW/MIA Recognition Day posters will be available from all Military Services, major national veteran organizations, the Defense POW/MIA Office (703) 699-1169) and the League.

Invitations: For all events, invitations may be sent to POW/MIA families in your area through the Service Casualty Offices (USA 800-892-2490; USN 800-443-9298; USMC 800-847-1597; USAF 800-531-5501), the CIA 703-874-4270, State Department for missing civilians 202-647-5470, and the League’s national office 703-465-7432. Invitations should also be extended to area veterans organizations, local dignitaries, civic organizations, etc. Speak to local civic clubs, veteran groups and auxiliaries, schools and churches prior to Recognition Day about the POW/MIA issue and plans for educational activities. Get them involved!

Other Programs

You can also circulate Petitions to Hanoi as a group or individual effort for Recognition Day. Completed petitions should be sent to your congressman and/or your two senators with a request that they be forwarded, with a cover letter, to Embassy of the Socialist Republic of Vietnam, (SRV) 1233 Twentieth Street, NW, Suite 400, Washington, DC 20036. This serves a two-fold purpose: 1) informing elected officials of constituent involvement; and 2) signaling Hanoi of US Congressional support.

Most states have memorials to honor POW/MIAs and all veterans. POW/MIA Vigils (for 24 hours or for a specific amount of time related to the number of Americans missing in your area) are meaningful, visible displays of support for the POW/MIA issue. Vigils can include candlelight ceremonies, reading of individual names from the state or 50 names representing one missing man from each of the 50 states. Congressional involvement in such events also signals interest in and support for the issue.

Encourage flying the League’s POW/MIA flag at the State Capitol, city hall and other local and state government buildings. Contact fire and police departments, schools and local businesses, requesting display of the POW/MIA flag at all appropriate locations. Check your local office of the U.S. Postal Service to ensure they have a flag and plan to display it, as required by law, on at least the six designated days (Armed Forces Day, Memorial Day, Flag Day, Independence Day, Recognition Day & Veterans Day) required, if not 24/7.

Rededication ceremonies may also be held for flags that are already on display, an ideal event to honor POW/MIAs from all wars. To obtain POW/MIA flags, contact the Ohio Chapter MIA-POW, Mrs. Liz Flick, 614-451-2405. [Liz Flick is the lady who wore a bracelet with my brother's name (Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, MIA 1970) for over 35 years. She gave her bracelet to Paul Bartlett to use on a heliplaque presented to our family at his burial services in Arlington National Cemetery, May 2007. Read her story and see the plaque here.)

Distribute POW/MIA brochures, available from the League’s national office, 703-465-7432.

*Updated information to support POW/MIA events is available from the League’s web site (www.POWMIALeague.org) or the national office, upon request. If possible, please send a donation to help cover printing and shipping costs.

AMERICA CELEBRATES U.S. CONSTITUTION

2009-09-14T07:30:00.006-04:00

DAR Promotes Constitution Week Awareness

WASHINGTON, DC – Today, September 17, 2009, begins the national celebration of CONSTITUTION WEEK. The week long commemoration of America’s most important document is one of our country’s least known official observances. Our Constitution stands as a testament to the tenacity of Americans throughout history to maintain their liberties and freedom, and to ensure those unalienable rights to every American.

The tradition of celebrating the Constitution was started many years ago by the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR). In 1955, the Daughters petitioned Congress to set aside September 17-23 annually to be dedicated for the observance of Constitution Week. The resolution was later adopted by the U.S. Congress and signed into Public Law #915 on August 2, 1956 by President Dwight D. Eisenhower. The aims of the celebration are to (1) emphasize citizens’ responsibilities for protecting and defending the Constitution, preserving it for posterity; (2) inform the people that the Constitution is the basis for America’s great heritage and the foundation for our way of life; and (3) encourage the study of the historical events which led to the framing of the Constitution in September 1787.

The United States of America functions as a Republic under the Constitution, which is the oldest document still in active use that outlines the self-government of a people. This landmark idea that men had the inalienable right as individuals to be free and live their lives under their own governance was the impetus of the American Revolution. Today, the Constitution stands as an icon of freedom for people around the world.

DAR has served America for 119 years as its foremost cheerleader. In 1928, the Daughters began work on a building as a memorial to the Constitution. John Russell Pope, architect of the Jefferson Memorial, was commissioned to design the performing arts center, known as DAR Constitution Hall. Today, DAR Constitution Hall is the only structure erected in tribute to the Constitution of the United States of America.

Known as the largest women’s patriotic organization in the world, DAR has over 165,000 members with approximately 3,000 chapters in all 50 states and 11 foreign countries. The DAR has long promoted patriotism through commemorative celebrations, memorials, scholarships and activities for children, and programs for new immigrants. For more information about DAR and its programs visit http://www.dar.org/.

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Preamble to the Constitution

"To live under the American Constitution is the greatest political privilege that was ever accorded to the human race." Calvin Coolidge
“We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.”
READ THE CONSTITUTION HERE

You will learn all about the U.S. Constitution at the website. You can read the complete document online, download it and download graphics of the complete document.

Proud to be an American. Take time this week to read the U.S. Constitution.
Thank you, Proud member of the DAR! Flamingo 91

Remembering September 11, 2001

2009-09-11T08:44:00.002-04:00

Stand tall. The best way I can serve my country today is to fly my American flag proudly in honor and respect to the September 11, 2001, victims and all who were effected. All United States of America citizens, our country and our right to freedom were attacked that tragic day. I will do no less in memory of all who lost their lives, and in honor of those who are fighting for our freedom. Be aware, they are still attacking. Never forget. God Bless America.

It's Still There-Firebird 91

2009-08-11T09:16:00.009-04:00

WOW, it's still there. Yes, the photo I left at my brother's grave last December at Arlington National Cemetery is still there, as of July 31st that is. This is truly amazing.

If you've read my previous post (Memorial Day 2009) you know that Flamingo 91 left the photo at Firebird 91's grave December 2008, when she was laying wreaths as a volunteer for the Wreaths Across America event. (Click on the wreath icon to the right to see how you too can help with this wonderful, humbling event.)

Flamingo 91 made up a couple collages of photos so both front and back of the photo had various information about Firebird 91, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby. Front side as you see (above left) has been the photo taken by those who have sent a photo to me.

However, there is a back side to this, which is shown here. It has a photo of the back of the helmet of Firebird 91 (Crosby) as pilot in Vietnam, along with the 71st Assault Helicopter Company Firebird patch. This is the first photo I've received from anyone who has visited his grave and sent me a photo.

My cousin was visiting Washington, D.C. late July to attend the Paul McCartney concert with her son. While there they took in some sight seeing and of course, went to Arlington National Cemetery. She took these photos for me as I had told her about the photo asking her to let me know if it was still there.

I am truly amazed though of how long this photo has remained at his grave marker. Usually items are not left there that long either by being picked up by maintenance crews or just being blown away by mother nature. Someone, and bless you whoever you are, made sure the photo remained as it was tucked in front of the marker at the bottom to hold it in place through all this time. You can see it peeking up from the bottom here.

If you ever visit Arlington National Cemetery do stop by to pay your respects to Capt. Crosby at Section 60, plot 557 at the corner of Eisenhower and York Drives. Let me know if the photo is still there.

You were never, nor will you ever be forgotten my dear brother, now resting in peace at home.

I plan to attend the annual wreath laying again this December and if the photo is still there I plan to take it home with me and leave another one in it's place.

Daughters of the American Revolution

2009-08-03T21:42:00.007-04:00

Flamingo 91 was officially accepted as a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR) on July 6, 2009. I am so honored to be a member of this organization. The DAR is a non-profit, non-political volunteer women's service organization dedicated to promoting patriotism, preserving American history, and securing America's future through better education.

Any woman 18 years or older, regardless of race, religion, or ethnic background, who can prove lineal descent from a patriot of the American Revolution is eligible. If you think you might have a patriot in your family history, contact the DAR to find your local chapter and check it out.

My lineage is on my father's side of the family, the Crosby family. My relationship is to patriot, James Clark, from

Connecticut . He was a Private and fought in the Lexington Alarm and other battles. There is a lot of information that I don't have about him yet, but I'll be researching more of him, indeed.

The interesting thing is that I'm most likely related to more patriots. Now that I'm a member I have access to various family lineages on file in the huge library of the DAR headquarters office in Washington, DC. I have already found one other patriot I'm related to, and I've been told by my cousin, Carol, that we are possibly related to "several" as her regent informed her. Carol recently became a member of the DAR last year.

What an honor this is for me. I know now that I've had family members who have defended our country since the American Revolution. Wow! No wonder I love our troops and military so much.

You, too could be related to a Revolutionary War patriot who fought for our country's freedom. It's a high privilege to be a DAR member and I'm honored to serve our country, our veterans, our flag and our freedom in any way I can. God Bless the USA!

Godspeed Endeavor!

2009-07-15T17:53:00.006-04:00

Space Shuttle Endeavor, STS-127, has been launched! Destination Space, the final frontier! Love it.

These photos were taken from my backyard in Titusville, Florida. The rumble and sound was awesome and very loud this time. The photos don't do it justice, truly.

Time is running short on being able to view a live launch up close and personal so schedule a visit to the Space Coast for one of the upcoming launches. You won't be sorry. Just plan for delays. Take your time, enjoy the area if a launch is scrubbed...it will happen.

Memorial Day 2009

2009-07-12T15:01:00.004-04:00

An interesting thing happened this Memorial Day at Arlington National Cemetery. A gal who has a POW/MIA bracelet with my brother's name on it visited ANC again this year, as she has done many times before. For the past two years though she specifically stops by Herby's grave to pay her respects.

Notice the photo at the bottom left of the photo? I left that photo there last December [2008] when I placed a wreath on Herby's grave during the Wreaths Across America event. I wanted to leave a photo so anyone coming by would have a visual of who he was, along with the pertinent dates and his company information. On the back side is a photo of him wearing his "Crosby Firebird 91" helment along with his company's Firebird patch (71st Assault Helicopter Company). I put the two together and laminated them in hopes the weather wouldn't destroy them through a couple months until the wreaths were removed.

She also attended the ceremony of the President laying a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Memorial Day. She sent me the small flag and program she received as part of the crowd who attended.

When I saw this photo I couldn't believe my photo was still there this long and through Memorial Day! That the wind didn't blow it away over six month's time, nor did the groundskeepers remove it.

I wrote her a thank you for the photos, and asked if she placed this thinking that maybe she got the photo from the Firebird91 website. She replied that no, she didn't leave it...it was already there. It was the one I left in December. Blew my mind!

I plan to attend the Wreaths Across America event again this year as I so enjoy volunteering to lay the beautiful wreaths on the graves of our country's finest, our military veterans from all wars. This year we'll lay 16,000 wreaths on December 12. It's a truly humbling experience to do this and to walk in that hallowed ground.

I wonder if the photo will still be there in December? I plan to make up another one to replace the one that's currently there (if it still is), and bring the original one back home with me.

Now isn't that something?

Scraps for the Needy

2009-06-06T12:27:00.008-04:00

This past weekend in worship Indian River City United Methodist Church gave away a little over $10,000 to its members and friends. The purpose of the giveaway was to encourage people to multiply a gift from God so that it can be used to help people in need during our tough economic times.

Here’s how it works: households were encouraged to take a $50 bill, pray about how to use it, and then put it to work over the next 10 weeks. On the weekend of August 8-9, we will celebrate Harvest Day, when people will bring back their multiplied gifts in our worship services.

The multiplication will then be used to help people in need. One half will be given to North Brevard Charities; the other have will be used by IRC in its direct outreach to people in need.

I volunteered, receiving my $50. As I was listening to the pastor explain the process, I immediately knew what I was going to do. I’ll create a digital scrapbook sized for easy framing (8x10) and ask for a small donation.

To see examples of what I’ve done click on the Scrapbook Portfolio to the right of this article.

Digital scrapbooking has recently become a fun hobby for me. It’s like traditional scrapbooking, however this is completely digital. I purchase “kits” and “elements” from various scrapbook sites, or I create my own “elements” and put them together to produce a beautiful, fun memory from a special photo or photos. It’s completely done using PhotoShop.

What I’ll need from you:

Email your photo to me at mlwade@cfl.rr.com. For best results, send the original photo you downloaded from your camera to your computer (it’s usually 17”x12” at 72dpi). Otherwise, a high resolution photo is best.) Just attach the photo to an email. (Don’t crop or adjust the photo prior to sending. I’ll take care of that for you.)

If you don’t have the original, send what you have and we’ll go from there. If you have more than one photo you want in the scrap page, send them also.

Include the name of the person(s) in the photo, date of event, and name/title of the event, along with any pertinent information about the photo that you would like included in the scrap photo.

Indicate a theme or look that you may have in mind, or you can leave it completely up to me.

The layout/design I use will vary depending on the photo and the information provided to me. Designer’s choice, unless you’ve requested otherwise.

I will put together a design and email it to you for your proofing. Upon your approval a high-quality print will be made and mailed to you. I will also provide a low-resolution version for you to share online with your family and friends.

Donations: $15 each page (unless of course you’d like to send more); $10 if you're local and I don't have to mail it.
Checks, Money Orders, or cash accepted (sorry, no credit cards).
Make checks payable to IRC United Methodist Church. (Keep a copy for your charity donations for tax time.)

So help me out folks. Help me increase my $50. I've got 10 weeks, now nine to go. It's win, win, win for everyone. I get to scrap, you get a great memory in print, and someone gets help.

Ink: $2.08
Paper: $1.42
Postage: $4.80
Design work: $8.30
Final product: Priceless

Coming Home-Memorial Day Tribute to Cpt. Crosby

2009-05-24T11:13:00.011-04:00

The following video was done by the Indian River City United Methodist Church in Titusville, Florida, which is being shown at all their services this Memorial Day weekend.

It's titled "Coming Home" a Memorial Day tribute and thank you to my brother, Capt Herbert C. Crosby who was listed MIA Vietnam, January 10, 1970. (Herby was born on traditional Memorial Day, 1947.) His remains were identified November 2006, and he was buried in Arlington National Cemetery, May 25, 2007.

Through his love and sacrifice to God and country, along with his return home to American soil, he has also brought me home. A message was sent through Herby using Chaplain Col. William (Whiz) Broome as the messenger, and I listened.

I hope you listen also. Remember our fallen heroes, along with our troops and their families. Never forget and never stop honoring them.

Thank you, Herby. Thank you, Whiz. And most importantly, thank you, God.

LZ George-2009 (1969 Firebirds)

2009-05-08T17:00:00.021-04:00

Firebirds 2009! (Kaz, George, Randy, Davy, Ski, Stan, Terry and Vic)

The 1969 era 71st Assault Helicopter Company "Firebirds" gathered at LZ George this past week for R&R to celebrate their 40th anniversary! (Military lingo LZ is Landing Zone.) The call sign “Firebird” was used by UH-1B, C & M gunships, some of the most feared gunships in all of Vietnam.

These men fought, lived and breathed for each other years ago while based at Chu Lai, Vietnam. The circumstances of war 40 years ago brought these men together, and they still remain a strong brotherhood today.

These Firebirds landed successfully at LZ George, nestled in the woods of north Georgia. The Firebirds retreat here every other spring for R&R, in this case, refuel and replenish. R&R (rest and recooperation) will come when they get home. This group of Firebirds is from the 'Summer of 1969.' All the Firebirds from that group couldn't attend, but they all agreed to continue the Firebird Reunion as long as possible.

It's party time for now! The Firebird Party Room was once again alive and kicking with high tales of flight, danger, loss, and just plain fun.

Firebirds at their best!

Fire Team Leaders-1969

Team Leaders mixin magic...notice the Firebird rocket fuel on the shelf behind them. It's their very own Firebird fuel in two varieties -Rocket Red' and 'Willy Pete White' (that's white phosphorous for the non-military).

At the bar!

Breakfast with the Birds!

McHugh Memorial photo
Kelly McHugh liked 'flip the bird' in his Vietnam photos.
Look closely at their hands - - - - what do you see?
Kelly couldn't be with us - so we gave him a memorial salute.

Firebird George, host of LZ George, Firebird Reunion 2009
George is actually Jim, but in Vietnam he was affectionately given the name George since he was from Georgia. The name has been with him ever since.

Soar proudly Firebirds! Cheers to you all!

MercyMe's 'Imagine'

2009-05-05T13:33:00.002-04:00

Simply beautiful. Enjoy!

Vietnam Vet Reunion-Meeting Frank Anton, Firebird 90

2009-04-26T18:46:00.038-04:00

WOW! What a wonderful day it was Saturday at the Vietnam Veterans and All Veterans Reunion at Wickham Park in Melbourne, Florida.

Dan and I headed out about 10am on our way to Melbourne. I had donned all my Firebird attire, my various pins (Gold Star, American flag, POW/MIA, Huey helicopter, Vietnam cross, Firebird logo) along with wearing my brother's dog tag. This dog tag was the one that our family received from the DOD upon his official identification in 2006.

Most of you reading this know the story of my brother, Capt. Herbert C Crosby (MIA Vietnam 1970) but if not visit http://www.firebird91.org/ to read about him. I take him to all the veteran events I attend by wearing his Army dog tag that he wore the last day of his life. It means so much to me.

We arrived at Wickham Park coming into the memorial area first. It, of course, takes on a feel of reverence immediately. The Vietnam Traveling Memorial Wall with American flags flying, wreaths from various veteran organizations placed in honor, state flags surrounding the area, and the wall of names for the Operation Freedom, 911, with special tributes throughout the area just touches your heart. The whole area was guarded with continuously Honor Guards from various organizations. We, of course, wanted to see the Vietnam Traveling Memorial Wall again and pay tribute to all whose name is on that wall. They gave their all...we should never forget.I laid a memorial patch designed by the Georgia Patriot Guard Riders for my brother's burial in Arlington National Cemetery in front of panel 14W where Herby's name is on line 22, along with his crew. I touched their names and prayed. I cried as one just can't walk up to that wall without crying or feeling the emotion of it. And this is the Vietname Traveling Memorial Wall, a scaled model of The Wall in Washington. Let me tell you, the emotion is still there. It was beautiful. (The patch is black and white at the bottom of the above photo behind the flag. I've highlighted in yellow where Herby's name is.)

Dan and I walked towards the vendor area to visit with Paul. On the way there were various displays and booths. One though caught my attention as it was something I hadn't seen before. It was Buck's Heroes memorial. This was for all the war dogs that either lost their lives in service or were left behind when all the troops pulled out of Vietnam. Tears welled up for this one also. That sign on the right reads: "In Memory of the over 4000 US War Dogs that served in Vietnam. After the war was over these dogs were left behind in Vietnam. They were our buddies and we will never forget them." The names of the dogs are on all those little plaques laying on the ground.

We moved on to the vendor section and as we walked into that area, right in front of us was Paul Bartlett's booth for the heliplaques. And there he was. I started walking toward him with arms outstretched for a huge hug. He looked up and the biggest smile came on his face as was on mine. He was talking to another Veteran who was in a scooter as he couldn't walk. Paul was telling him about Herby and me. So when I walked up to Paul and the Veteran, timing was perfect. Paul introduced me to him and I hugged the Vet and he just wouldn't let go (hmmm!) but he had tears well up in his eyes. I told him Herby's story was a good story and how proud I was of him and I thanked him for his service. It was a great moment.

What a perfect location for Paul, and for Frank Anton, Vietnam POW (1968-1973) Firebird 90 from the 71st AHC with him signing his book, Why Didn't You Get Me Out? I had not met Frank before so I was looking forward to meeting him and getting his book. I had heard so much about him from all my Rattler and Firebird brothers so was anxious to meet him. He was a Firebird and from my brother's unit, although he was there before Herby arrived, and unfortunately became a POW also.

Paul Bartlett served with the 71st Assault Helicopter Co. Vietnam from 1967-1968. Paul was a helicopter mechanic and pilot serving in Germany, Vietnam, and Alaska. After a brief stint using his flight skills on the construction of the Alaskan Pipeline, Paul had a full and decorated career as a trooper and pilot for the Alaska State Troopers. In "retirement", Paul earned his Airframe and Powerplant License and worked restoring antique aircraft before applying his passions to launch HeliPlaqueTM. He made his first Heliplaque for my brother's long awaited return to American soil. We have this heliplaque proudly displayed in our home. These are great and any helicopter pilot who flew should have one. Check out his website.

We had a great time talking and just being together. Frank signed my book with a special note. It was such an honor to meet him as he ws truly an American hero and as I told him, all the Rattlers and Firebirds are heroes to me, but a POW, well, words can't describe it...I'm so happy he's home. I starting reading his book Sunday afternoon and could hardly put it down. It's really a good, no it is more than good, it is outstanding. It's a truthful story of his five terrifying years as a POW.

From the back cover: " Only after the war was over did he learn that the entire time he was imprisoned, our government had known exactly where he and his fellow captives were and could have easily rescued them. Anton was shocked to learn that he had been nothing more than a pawn in an international game of power politics and espionage. He reveals why our government didn't get him out - even when a successful rescue could have been easily completed. He tells of appalling conditions in the jungle prison campus. He remembers his comrades who died while patriotically defending a government that betrayed them He shares the shocking details of torturous deaths endured in the jungle darkness while our government simply looked the other way." This photo is the shirt he wore while in the Hanoi Hilton.

It's a great, must read book. If you haven't read it, get it and read it. (Or just search Frank Anton on the internet and you'll find his book.) It's a must read to understand why a lot of us (me included) believe and know there were men left behind. Are they still prisoners of war? Are they still alive? Most likely yes I believe as do others. Why haven't we gotten them home? It sickens me to know that our government took such a cynical attitude toward this issue.

We then walked around the area visiting all the vendor booths as I wanted to purchase a few items. While doing this we heard that sweet sound of a helicopter. Sure enough, one was circling around the reunion area. It came around and

landed making an awesome show. Of course we were right there to check it out. I got this great photo with the huge American and POW/MIA flags with the helicopter. People could get in it so photo ops were abundant!

We talked with many veterans. One man from central Winter Park area came up to me and gave me a big hug saying to me, "God bless you" as he saw my Gold Star pin knowing what it meant. His duty in Vietnam was to bag up the bodies to send home. I can't imagine his struggle through the years of this. It was hard for him but he told us he had to quickly learn to have a good/crazy sense of humor. He bagged over 400 bodies himself. His wife sends him to this reunion every year to help get Vietnam out of his system for a while. He camps there for the entire weekend with a friend and just really enjoys it. He says it great therapy.

We talked with twins who served at the same time but were in different locations in Vietnam. They try to come every year. It's so humbling to hear their stories and to be a part of these warriors reunions. If you've never been to the reunion, go next year.

As we headed out for the day we went back to the memorial area so I reflect a little more. By that time more little American flags had been placed around the patch. Herby's patch had been moved from where I had it and placed on a carnation stem with American flags around it as seen here. I was touched.

As we were standing there we heard again that sweet sound of the helicopter and knew it must be leaving. And oh my, it

came right up over the Moving Wall, hovered there and then bowed/saluted the wall and flew on. Dan and I were standing right in front of it. I can tell you know the goose bumps and chills were all over me. It was breathtaking. What an absolutely lovely day at Wickham Park. Thank you to every veteran and civilian who made this day possible. Never forget our fallen heroes. Never forget our POW/MIA and support a full accounting. God Bless our veterans. And this I take from the jacket of Frank Anton's book (think about this and read the book):

SURELY, SOMEONE WILL COME! POW/MIAs IN S.E. ASIA STILL WAIT!

National POW/MIA League of Families Call for Help

2009-04-16T17:42:00.012-04:00

I’m a member of the National League of POW/MIA Families and I'm asking for your help to sustain operations of the League. I became a member, along with my family after my brother, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby, US Army helicopter pilot and crew were reported Missing in Action (MIA) in Vietnam, January 10, 1970.

The League has been instrumental in assuring accountability of our POW/MIAs from Vietnam, and all wars. Take time to learn about the League and you’ll be surprised at what they have accomplished.

I know that without out the League’s efforts my brother’s remains would not have been repatriated and finally identified concluding with his burial at Arlington National Cemetery May 2007.

I never gave up hope, and I NEVER will give up hope for any POW/MIA’s return to American soil, whether he or she be alive or dead. There is one crew member still MIA from my brother’s Firebird 91 crew. And, there are two other Rattler-Firebirds from the A/501st Aviation Battalion, 71st Assault Helicopter Company, 151st Transportation Detachment, and the 94th Signal Detachment who also remain MIA. I can’t give up on these men, I just can’t.

The following is from the League's March 2009 newsletter which tells the need. Please read this, visit their website and make a tax-deductible donation. Just click on the newsletter link to read the full newsletter and learn who has been recently identified since October 2008.
In case you didn’t know…the League does not receive funds from the government, nor unfortunately do they receive royalties from the sale of our POW/MIA flag. None of the POW/MIA ﬂag manufacturers donate a cent to the League, despite the proﬁts they make on US Government contracts for supplying POW/MIA ﬂags to ﬂy on required dates. Read why below.

PLEDGE OR SEND DONATION BEFORE APRIL 30, 2009.
From March 2009 Newsletter:
STATUS OF THE LEAGUE: Funds received since the ﬁnancial appeal was distributed in mid-October enabled the League to continue, but the outcome was far from clear. Thanks to the generosity of several members – family and associate –some former US ofﬁcials and our League Advisors, funds were sufﬁcient to catch up on expenses for the calendar year 2008.

The stated goal, however, was to also have six months operating funds – $72,000($12,000 per month) – on hand and in the bank by January 1, 2009. That goal was not met; therefore, at its meeting February 6th-7th, the Board of Directors decided that a referendum should be sent to all League members to determine the level of interest in and commitment to the League’s continuation as an organization operating under current bylaws. That referendum is included below.

The results will be tabulated and available for the next meeting of the Board of Directors, now scheduled for May 1st-3rd. At that time, the Board will decide whether an election will be held to seat a Board of Directors for 2009 – 2011. Every possibility is being exhausted to ensure the League’s continuation. All recognize that this comes at a time of worldwide economic recession and that funds are tight. The contributions received thus far have been due to widespread realization of the importance of the League’s role to ensure continuing priority on accounting efforts. Members and supporters are urged to be imaginative in trying to raise funds and to contribute to the extent possible to sustain League efforts.
REFERENDUM OF ALL MEMBERS REGARDING THE LEAGUE’S CONTINUATION
For the League to sustain operations, a commitment from 500 individuals, families or groups to donate $25 per month is required. All need to understand that a few members, advisors and some dedicated state and local level veteran organizations have been donating substantial sums for years and years. We hope their generosity will continue with increased support from other League members, especially family members, even though our numbers dwindle each year, just from attrition. The Board recognizes that not all members can afford to send in $25 per month, but many can. Some just don’t realize the gravity of the situation.

The League was never intended to be an ongoing nonproﬁt organization, but was planned from inception to close as soon as the fullest possible accounting had been achieved. It never occurred to the founders that the League would be necessary some 40 years after formation. Had this possibility been considered, our POW/MIA ﬂag would have been legally protected, and income to sustain operations would never have been a problem. It needs to be clearly understood: The League receives no government funding. None of the POW/MIA ﬂag manufacturers donate a cent to the League, despite the proﬁts they make on US Government contracts for supplying POW/MIA ﬂags to ﬂy on required dates.
Despite these realities, and the all-too-often desperate ﬁnancial hardships, if the League had not existed and pushed every step of the way until President Reagan made this issue a priority, the effort would long ago have been shelved, as was originally intended post-war. Had it not been for the League closely monitoring each step since1992 – including overcoming the disastrous impact of the Senate Select Committee – there would have been no expansion of personnel and resources to achieve continuing success. The organizations that comprise the ofﬁcial accounting community – DPMO, JPAC, AFDIL, LSEL, Stony Beach – and more, simply would not exist, at least at today’s level. The Korean War, Cold War and WWII families would not have had any hope for ﬁnal answers.

Having said that, we cannot expect others to shoulder most of the burden; this is a responsibility that must be shared by more of the POW/MIA families, even though our membership is aging and many are on ﬁxed or reduced incomes. The younger members must now step up to the plate if you, also, want the League to continue.

DONATE HERE BEFORE APRIL 30, 2009
PLEDGE TO SUSTAIN THE NATIONAL LEAGUE OF POW/MIA FAMILIES
I/We, __________________________________, want the
League to continue and am/are  making a commitment to send $25.00 per month,
totaling $300.00 per year, to the National League of POW/MIA Families, effective
immediately, so that the League can continue its operations.
 ___ $300
check enclosed for the year.
 ___ $150 check enclosed for six months, and
I/we pledge to send an additional $150 prior to 12/31/09.
 ___ $25 check
enclosed for one month, and I/we pledge to send $25 on the ﬁrst of each month, based on the outcome of this referendum.
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The League (a 501 [c] 3 nonproﬁt) again met the stringent criteria for eligibility in the 2008 campaign, and has already applied for the 2009 campaign that doesn’t begin until next October. Our ofﬁcial number is the same, CFC #10218, assigned by the Ofﬁce of Personnel Management (OPM), Washington, DC. The League is the ONLY nonproﬁt organization representing American POW/MIAs, KIA/BNRs and their families eligible for donations through CFC & United Way. Despite the reality of many competing charities and much need, especially in a time of war, the League is proud of our eligibility, due to tough requirements that must be met and is in urgent need of tax-deductible donations, FEIN #23-7071242.

Mail your pledge/donation can be mailed to:
NATIONAL LEAGUE OF FAMILIES OF AMERICAN PRISONERS AND MISSING IN SOUTHEAST ASIA
1005 NORTH GLEBE ROAD, SUITE 170,
ARLINGTON, VIRGINIA 22201
PH (703) 465-7432 http://www.powmialeague.org/ FAX (703) 465-7433
Any questions, email:
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THANK YOU!!!!

March of the Spartans 2010-Get Ready Now

2009-04-07T16:15:00.003-04:00

Well folks, the flock was in shock about 10 minutes into the MSU vs. UNC game last night and flew the coop at half-time. It ain't pretty watching a flamingo swish those feathers on the way out the door while scratching her head in complete disbelief and wonder.

But Spartans, do know, you had an excellent year and this flamingo is very proud and happy for you.

Congratulations Tar-Heels.

Flamingo 91 has dusted off her feathers from the blood, sweat and tears of the game, and is preparing for next year.

Yes, next year Spartans! Mighty Spartans, next year you march all the way to victory! Flamingo 91 will be watching.

Preparing for Spartan Glory

2009-04-06T08:53:00.008-04:00

The flock is gathering at the Flamingo Nest buzzing in anticipation of the great game this evening when our MSU Spartans take on North Carolina Tar Heels in Detroit for the NCAA Championship game.

MSU FIGHT SONG SAYS IT ALL:

On the banks of the Red Cedar,

There's a school that's known to all;

Its speciality if winning,

And those Spartans play good ball;

Spartan teams are never beaten,

All through the game they'll fight;

Fight for the only colors:

Green and White.

Go right through for MSU,

Watch the points keep growing,

Spartan teams are bound to win,

They're fighting with a vim!

Rah! Rah! Rah!

See their team is weakening,

We're going to win this game,

Fight! Fight! Rah! Team, Fight!

Victory for MSU!

MARCH ON SPARTANS! GO GREEN! GO WHITE!

Congratulations MSU Spartans!

2009-03-30T18:44:00.007-04:00

2009 Crosby Army ROTC Scholarship Awarded

2009-03-29T10:23:00.026-04:00

There are no words to describe the feeling of being in a room full of young American defenders, US Army men and women in uniform. These particular young defenders are members of the Embry-Riddle Army ROTC Eagle Battalion. There are 225 members of the Eagle Battalion, consisting of cadets from Bethune Cookman Community College, Stetson University, and of course Embry-Riddle, home of the Eagle Battalion.

The Embry-Riddle Army ROTC 2009 Awards Ceremony was held Thursday, March 26, and I was there to present the 2009 Crosby Army ROTC Scholarship to one worthy cadet. This year's award was $500, presented to CDT Catlan Sardina.

There were numerous awards and presenters from gropus such as the American Legion, Post 17, Daughters of the American Colonist, Daughters of the American Revolution, US Daughters of 1812, MOAA, Military Order of the Purple Heart, AMVETS, AUSA and many more. It was such an honor to be a part of this ceremony. To sit there and see the young faces of our future defenders of freedom who were pinned with medals or presented certificates for their outstanding achievements in their mission was humbling.

I invited my friend Andrea, the RadioPatriot to join me this year. We were warmly greeted and seated on the front row along with the other presenters. I was given instructions on the presentation scenario. Time to begin. All the cadets marched into the room, single file to take their seats behind us in the auditorium. The Introduction, Invocation and Colors were Posted, then our national anthem was sung.

I was the second presenter. Cadet Sardina's name was called and no one appeared. Oh my! Where is he? RadioPatriot and I determined that something serious must have kept him away as he was so highly regarded by his commanding officer, LTC Clark. The announcer moved on to the next cadet. After about two presentations I caught a glimpse of someone entering the auditorium from the back. I just knew this was CDT Sardina. Sure enough, the announcer then called his name and he came to the front of the auditorium standing tall. I was announced and walked up to face him (my back to the crowd). The announcer then told a little about the history of the Crosby Scholarship, and CPT Herbert C. Crosby's final tragic flight on January 10, 1970. We smiled at each other and CDT Sardina said very softly, "I'm so sorry I'm late." I told him it was okay and began to show him Herby's dog tag that I was wearing. This was the original dog tag returned to our family in 2006. I wear it to all related events.

I presented him the award, shook his hand and gave him a big hug.

After all the presentations were made I had time to talk with CDT Sardina, Catlan. Catlan explained that he was late due to a lunch meeting he had with his pastor. This meeting was about his future in attending the seminary so he could become a chaplain in the Army. I know my face lit big time. You see, I'm friends with Col. William (Whiz) Broome who just happens to be an active-duty Army Chaplain, and recently the Pentagon Chaplain at that. I knew Whiz would be able to assist Catlan so I told him all about Whiz. I knew I had calls and emails to make to connect these two. Whiz was very pleased to hear this news and more than willing to help.

Cadet Sardina told me he wants to fulfill his mission in Infantry first, then possibly go into Special Forces, and then become a chaplain. He feels this is his calling and he is devoted to it. He's Commander of the Officers Christian Fellowship Space Coast Chapter where he's doing tremendous things for our troops in Iraq. His degree is in Mechanical Engineering. Cadet Sardina was the Battalion Commander from August 2008 to January 2009, he has been part of the Ranger Challenge Team for three years He received the Superior Cadet award in 2006 and received this award again for 2009 during the ceremony on Thursday. Catlan has completed Airborne school, Mountain Warfare training and Northern Warfare training.

Cadet Sardina will graduate and be commissioned on May 2. He will then be transferred to Alaska to report to duty. I hope to be able to attend his commissioning. Will keep you posted.

I had the pleasure to meet such a wonderful young man who has dreams that I know he will accomplish. I have his email address that will stay with him throughout his career so I hope to keep in touch.

I also have recently heard from now 2LT Benjamin Boxler, 2008 recipient of the Crosby Scholarship. He's currently stationed at Fort Stewart, Georgia and is working alongside a military police unit. He is also getting married soon. He wrote me these wonderful words:

"I cannot say enough how honored I am to have received the initial scholarship on behalf of CPT Crosby. The award and ceremony were very special to me, as well as a VERY exciting moment for my family and fiancee. One thing that me struck as most amazing was reading the letters home from CPT Crosby. His actions demonstrated the duty that the Army continues to teach to every Soldier to this day. But the personal commitment that I read in those letters truly hit home as
a Junior officer. You could almost feel the excitement in anticipation of the mission from what he wrote.
I hope that the next cadet that receives this award can benefit as much as I have from CPT Crosby's story. I hope that the tradition continues with the Embry-Riddle ROTC program and you and your family continue to enjoy good health and wellness."

Early Thursday morning as I was walking back into our house from picking up the morning newspaper I was gazing at the stars (was still dark outside). All of a sudden a shooting star came whizzing directly over my head. It was very low, large and appeared to have a smaller star following in it's path. I said to myself, "Flamingo girl, this is going to be a good day." It certainly was.

From Troy's Place, Iraq-You Can Help Also

2009-03-24T18:38:00.011-04:00

You might have read my previous post, Helping the Troops on February 7th about the Chaplain (Chaplain Maj. Norris Burkes) in Iraq who was asking for items that the troops needed. I read his spirituality column in the local newspaper every Saturday and that particular week in February he was asking for help...go read the story if you haven't...just click here.

Chaplain Burkes (former Air Force) is recently retired hospital Chaplain, but signed back up when a call came for the need of chaplains in Iraq. So he signed up for a tour which ends in April I believe. Brave and wonderful thing to do Chaplain Burkes. God bless you.

I happened to earn $19 CVS bucks from all those many, many purchases I make of supplies for mom and prescriptions, etc. Great little reward system. I had this $19 coupon for a couple weeks and really didn't know why I hung on to it so long. Free money!

Well, about the time the coupon was getting ready to expire I read the article about helping the troops and I said to myself, "Flamingo girl, this is where the $19 CVS reward bucks will go, and Flamingo 91 you match it." So yes, I spruced up my feathers and headed to CVS on Friday, February 13th (my lucky day) to buy some of the items on the list. CVS was having a great sale which I took advantage of and even spent more than my match. I had a nice variety of items(from food snacks to toothbrushes, tissues, wipes, lots of variety of items requested) which I boxed up and mailed out that day. I added a short note to Chaplain Burkes telling him a little about my brother, Capt. Herbert C. Crosby and how I wanted to help. Of course I added a big GO ARMY! on the card (this was being sent to an Air Force Base)! I knew that would bring a laugh, smile, something.

I wanted to help, and this was so easy to do. However, I did learn a little from this endeavor that will make the next mailing all the better. You see, I boxed up the items in my own box and took it to the local mailing center. Big mistake.

A couple weeks later in the newspaper was a big thank you article from Chaplain Burkes as boxes were flowing in with the much needed items (care packages from home). In this article was also a bit more about how to send packages to troops. Now why the mailing center didn't tell me this??? I'm sure it had to do with profit, but...

Anyway, bottom line. Go to the US Post Office and pick up a box specifically designed for mailing to troops overseas. It's a Flat Rate mailing of $11.50 I believe. You can load that box up as heavy as you want and it's still $11.50. Be sure to pick up a Customs form as that will have to be filled out also. I spent over $22 mailing my own box. So, lesson learned here. Go to the US Post Office first.

It's so easy to pick up a few items every time I go to the grocery store or pharmacy and put them in the box. When full, seal it up and take it to the post office and pick up another free box, do the same to fill it up and mail it out for $11.50. Now how hard is that, and look what you're doing to support our troops and you know exactly where your money went.

I send money to large organizations, and smaller ones who send "care packages" however, I wanted to do something myself from myself and know exactly where it was going. Felt good in my heart. I mailed the box letting it go and just hoping it made it to it's destination. No one knew what I was doing except my husband, and a couple close friends.

Well, last week I was home sick with a cold and feeling poorly. My husband comes in with the mail and brings an envelope to me and says, "You have mail" and he was smiling big time. I saw the return address with an APO address and thought who is this from. Then it dawned on me...it was from Iraq. I opened it up to this very wonderful thank you card which was printed from a computer at the AF base. (As soon as I get my scanner working I'll add the card.)

Some facts on the back of the card about Troy's Place:
- Deisgned as a quiet place to allow troops to relax in a wholesome
enviornment in their off duty time.
-Open 24/7 to any personnel on Balad AB.
- Originally housed in a tent alongside the chapel, completely built and
ran by volunteers.
- Due to construction of the new Gilbert Memorial Chapel, the tent was
taken down and Troy's Place moved into the 332nd AEW Chapel office
trailer.
-Troy's Place provides many comfort itmes such as snacks and drinks to keep
our troops encouranged and refreshed. Many toiletry itmes and miscellaneous
games and stationery are also available.
-Troy's Place offers visitors videos, books, music and magazines.
-Troy's Place runs solely on items donated from friends and loved ones from
home.

(More about Major Troy Gilbert)

I didn't put my return address on the short note I wrote to Chaplain Burkes as I really didn't need a thank you so they must have gotten my address from the box itself. It was a general thank you note sent to all who send a package. I was humbled. I was happy. I smiled and it made my day completely.

Then, don't you know this past Saturday was another article in the newspaper from Chaplain Burkes thanking everyone again. He was amazed at the response to his request from his article which is published across the nation. The article explained if there was a note or card in the package it was given to Chaplain Burkes and that if one didn't put a return address they would send a general thank you to the person on the return label of the package, otherwise Chaplain Burkes would send a note. Most people, like me (as the article noted), just put a note in the box to Chaplain Burkes and not expecting a thank you so we didn't include our address in our personal note to him.

So folks, take the time and send a package to someone you know or don't know serving our country. I asked a friend of mine, Army Chaplain Whiz Broome, if he knew of an Army group that needed such items as I'm a huge Army supporter. He pointed me to America Supports You which has a huge list of places you can look for names. Some of these are organizations that send packages however some will supply you with an actual person to send your package to.

Here's the mailing address for Troy's Place:
Troy's Place
332 AEW/HC
APO AE 09315-9997

Now go cheer up a soldier's heart with a little care package from home.

Dusting Off those Winter Feathers

2009-03-17T17:48:00.010-04:00

Hey there! Wow, been a long time, I know. Flamingo 91 is back. It's been a long few weeks but spring has sprung and the feathers are being dusted off and Flamingo 91 is ready to strut again.

I know you missed me. Heck, I missed me. I took a long trip to the outer reaches looking for more flock. It's not like I don't have any other fellow flamingos strutting around (under close supervision you understand), but one is always looking for more flock. I mean, we are the jewels of the fire birds and we flock together beautifully. The more the merrier.

I was at the pool supply shop last week and low and behold there they were staring me in the face. Two no less, and cramped in the tiny box. Yes, a box! I was shocked. There were boxes and boxes of them. I mentioned to the salesman that I would be back to save these fellow creatures of fire as they did not belong in a box, but in my back yard!

Upon returning home and pulling into the gargage I saw my old friends Pink and Coral. Yes, Pink and Coral are flamingos, but not just any old flamingo. Pink and Coral were given to me by a dear friend who is originally from Indiana. Her mother found these two antiques at a garage sale. Can you believe it? Two beautiful flamingos, most definitely lost from the original flock as they were in Indiana? and in a garage sale? Oh my! Thank goodness Pat had the sense to snatch up these gems before they were carted off to the Indiana dump! Oh my, I can't even go there.

Know that these are not your normal pair of flamingos. These babies (antiques) are cast iron. Yes! Finds of the century. They were cleaned repainted and proudly displayed where they should be, in one's yard strutting all their fine beauty. However, bless their little hearts as they were in Indiana, way too cold for a fire bird. (Being orignally from Indiana I know there are great folks in Indiana, so it's okay, really.) But thank goodness these two made it to Florida, and don't you know only to end up in another garage! What are these people thinking? Garage, flamingos...oh my this just doesn't work.

Luckily I received the precious pair of flamingos, Pink and Coral, as a gift. I was so touched by this very special gift, truly. They were proudly cleaned and displayed in my yard, only to end up in Dan's Garage Kingdom when we moved to our new home in 2003. Someone slap me now for allowing this to happen to one of my own. My word, I will surely go to hell for this, forgive me!

This weekend the paint is coming out and these gems are going to be refurbished, feathers dusted and they are going to be proudly displayed in our back yard overlooking the pool. Now that's where they belong.

I will add a photo of them this weekend after they have been carefully placed in their new Florida spot in the sun.

I do have lots of good, funny and whatever type of stories to share. There is never a dull moment around these days, so good to be back.

Firebird Rocket Fuel

2009-02-07T13:19:00.017-05:00

The rest of the story, but first, you must know the beginning of the story...

The above photo, taken by Pete Marovich came from an article in the American Journal Magazine titled "Remembering the Fallen" written by Jenny Jones, posted on Friday, Febuary 6, 2009. Pete and Jenny met my friend Julie Hinz of The Rolling Thunder at The Wall in Washington, DC, May 2007, and interviewed her for the article. The Firebird Fuel was placed at The Wall by Rattlers and Firebirds (from the 71st Assault Helicopter Company, Chu Lai, Vietnam, 1969-1970 era) honoring my brother's return to American soil and burial at Arlington National Cemetery, May 2007. My brother was Firebird 91 who was listed as MIA Vietnam 1970, along with his crew.

When you click on the above story link just scroll down to you see the above photo and read her input to the article. (But if you go to that link, do come back now, cause you have to read the rest of the story!)

Now, for the rest of the story...

I sent the above information along with the National League of Families POW/MIA Update to my friends and family. Some of these friends are former comrades of my brother, and now friends of mine. One of these men, Vic Bandini, sent this information to me about the Firebird Fuel. I had to share this as it's great! Thank you Vic (Firebird 99)!

Vic wrote, "This link was sent by the sister of Herby Crosby - Firebird 91 - whose remains were returned to the USA in May 2007. Some of you may remember our journey to Arlington National Cemetery for his funeral over the 2007 Memorial Day weekend.

The wine was a 2007 gag project I created for our small Firebirds group who gather every other April at George Hardeman's lake retreat in east Georgia. The 'rocket red' refers to rockets we fired and the red wine vintage - this year I'm introducing 'Willy Pete white' for those who prefer a lighter taste (although by mid-evening at George's most couldn't distinguish wine from mogas)......Brewed by Tu - Tu was our hootch maid - about 4 ft tall with a nose wart. A typical day for Tu started with 15 minutes of crying upon her arrival in the Firebirds hootch at Chu Lai. She ususally found the party room a disaster - bottles, beer cans, broken glass, etc. scattered everywhere. Such was the night life of the off-duty Firebirds.

We placed the bottle at The Wall late on the Friday night following Herby's funeral - we went back the next morning and the bottle was still there (this speaks to the solemnity and respect shown at The Wall - no one vandalizes or removes memoribilia. Unusual for crime ridden metropolitan areas).

Of the four man Firebird 91 crew - CW3 Andy Howes remains unaccounted for to this day.

The Firebirds 2007!

Firebird Fuel -Vintage 2007!
PRICELESS!

Help our Troops in Iraq

2009-02-07T11:35:00.004-05:00

I read a "Spirituality" column in our local newspaper each Saturday by Chaplain Maj. Norris Burkes. He is a Freelance Writer, Public Speaker, Author, and Air National Guard Chaplain. He is currently stationed at Joint Base Balad, Iraq, through April (he volunteered to return for active service when the call came for Chaplains needed in Iraq). You'll find his weekly column in many newspapers across the country so you might have already read his request for items for our troops.

Anyway, this week he also sent a list of items that the troops in Balad could use. I thought I'd share the list with you all too.

If you'd like to help out, box up a care package and mail it to the base chapel where he's working. The address is:
Troy's Place
332 AEW/HC
APO AE 09315-9997

Here are some of the items our troops need:
FOOD ITEMS:
Crackers, cookies (Oreos, Chips Ahoy, etc.), candy, raisins, peanuts, trail mix, applesauce/fruit cups, instant oatmeal, chips, beef jerky, Granola bars, Little Debbie snacks, instant soups, popcorn, small microwavable items.
HYGIENE ITEMS:
Shampoo, conditioner and face and body wash, lotion, body/foot powder, deodorant, tissues (pocket size), wipes (handy wipes, antibacterial), shaving cream, eye drops, mouthwash, toothpaste, toothbrushes and dental floss, hand sanitizer, batteries of all size, and zipper bags (small size)
OTHER: Phone calling cards (international), greeting cards, blank note cards, thank you cards.

So, when you're out shopping this weekend, next week, whenever, pick up a few items, box them up and mail them out to help our troops. It's a small thing to due, but a huge impact. Thank you!

Born in the USA!

2009-02-01T20:25:00.002-05:00

Whoa Baby! What a half-time show! I loved it! Oh, Yes! Go Boss and the E Street Band. Loved it! This flamingo was strutting her stuff through the whole show, and having a great time at that. Wow!

Grew up with The Boss, and knew this was going to be a good show, but oh yeah! Dan and I saw Bruce and the E Street in concert in Orlando a few years ago with our good friends Charlie and Brenda. What a fabulous concert it was...couldn't sit down much through it either. And, this half-time show, well, bring it on again. Was way too short for me.

Loved it, can ya tell! hahaha I'm rooting for the Cardinals this game as my favorite teams just didn't make the cut for the Super Bowl this year. Actually, I'll take whoever wins as long as the numbers add up in the squares I have in the pool! Take care all, and THANK YOU The Boss and the E Street Band! You all were great! Absolutely! Best half-time show in a while, and hey, no wardrobe malfunctions! Just good music!

Happy Birthday, Dan!

2009-01-28T09:36:00.006-05:00

Today is Dan's 55th birthday. I scrapped the above photo taken of him this holiday season in his special room, the garage! That's his kingdom. He has just about everything he needs to survive in that garage.

You don't see one of the most important things, the beer refrigerator, but know, it's there. Dan likes his imported and domestic microbrews very much. He always keeps a variety on hand.

His golf gear is also not seen in this photo, but it's there. Golf is his favorite hobby and pass time (other than any thing Michigan State University sports-wise).

He has a TV hooked into the cable system (to watch all those Michigan State games and any sports game actually). There's also a boombox to listen to his favorite tunes while working on the many projects he always has going on in that sacred room. Craftsman man all the way, yes. He loves that room.

A scotch, a cigar, MSU on the tube, the Eagles on the CD, golf club in hand practicing shots, or drilling and building anything, repairing household things that break, you name it, he works on it or builds it in the garage. Some times he just goes out there to sit and think. Great ideas and wonderful projects come from that garage.

Tonight I'll cook him one of his favorite meals, probably while he's having a sip or two of his favorite scotch in his Garage Kingdom!

Wishing him a very happy birthday today!

Happy 90th Birthday Mom!

2009-01-17T12:33:00.016-05:00

Mom turned 90 years old on January 8th. I wasn’t sure what to do for her birthday. We recently returned from birthday party in Fort Wayne, Indiana, to celebrate the 90th birthday of my Uncle Bob [Crosby]. It was a wonderful trip which included a family reunion and early 90th birthday party for mom on her side of the family. That was on Saturday. Then, on Sunday was Uncle Bob’s party which was a huge Crosby family reunion also.

Knowing that all these folks would not be able to come to a party here and not too many of mom’s friends live here, well, it was like what do I do. If I have a party it’s going to be my friends who know mom, and she’d like that. However, I requested a birthday card for mom from The White House and when it arrived the light bulb went off in my head.

That’s it; I’ll give her a 90th Birthday CARD party! So I hurried to the computer and sent out an email to everyone on my distribution list to invite them to the party. It’s a simple thing, just mail her a card, no emails if possible, just send her a birthday card. No attendance required!

It was great. Cards starting arriving shortly after sending out the “invitation” to the Card Party. I put them all back so she wouldn’t see any of them. I couldn’t believe the response.

The big day arrived, Thursday, January 8th. Mom awoke to a room filled with balloons, ribbons and Happy Birthday plates everywhere. She was excited. I got her all situated for the morning and headed to work. She had a dental appointment in the afternoon so we headed there and then back home. (More on the dental appointment later.)

During the day a couple flower bouquets arrived which brightened her day tremendously. Her youngest son, Jason called her to wish her happy birthday. She was so happy to talk with him. And, she could actually hear him pretty good over the phone (she’s very hard of hearing).

One of her favorite meals is Kentucky Fried Chicken’s two-piece dark meat, original recipe, with mashed potatoes/gravy, slaw and biscuit (with sweet tea)! So, yes, on the way home I stopped to pick up KFC for our dinner that evening. Hey, it was the BIG football game that evening so fried chicken was perfect.

I set the table with her favorite cake, carrot cake all decorated, along with one of the flower bouquets and all the cards. I spread them all across the table. When she walked up to the table she was so surprised. She said, “Are these really for me? I didn’t think that many people cared.” It was so great. She had the biggest smile.

She opened each and every one of the cards with care, read each one, some times asking me who the person was who sent the card. I’d explain and she was just overwhelmed. And, then, the last card was from The White House. She couldn’t believe the President would send her a card. She was thrilled.

She was actually thrilled with all the cards she received. It was such a beautiful sight. After eating cake and enjoying her dinner, she was ready though to get comfy and head to her sitting room. Why? Florida was playing the big BCS football game championship against Oklahoma and she wasn’t going to miss that. She’s a huge college football fan. Loves Florida, Georgia and Notre Dame. She hardly misses any of these teams when on TV. And, as we know, Florida won which was the icing on the cake for her big day!

She had a great day, indeed. She felt blessed. She said she had reached her goal, to live to be 90 years of age. God Bless her. She’s still in great health other than mobility. I think she’ll be around for a while.

Happy Birthday Mom!

My Favorite Christmas Present - Arlington 2008

2009-01-02T16:30:00.006-05:00

I finally put together this video of my day at Arlington National Cemetery for the annual Wreaths Across America event held December 13, 2008. This was the best Christmas present of all. I was so happy to lay a wreath on not only my brother Herby's grave, but others also. It's a humbling experience to walk through Arlington National Cemetery. So much history and honor. It was honored to be there.

The first wreath I lay went on the grave of Margaret Elizabeth Black who was a nurse in the US Navy during WWI. I laid about seven wreaths that day, taking time at each one to thank them for their service and say a prayer for them. It's an amazing feeling to do this. I have some photos in a previous post I did of this trip.

I hope I'll be able to go again next year. Flamingo 91

Happy New Year

2008-12-31T16:14:00.005-05:00

Ring out the old, ring in the new,

Ring, happy bells, across the snow:

The year is going, let him go;

Ring out the false, ring in the true.

~Alfred, Lord Tennyson, 1850

Wishing you all a joyful, healthy and prosperous 2009!

Happy New Year! Flamingo 91

Good Morning, Jillian

2008-12-29T17:24:00.010-05:00

Oh my! Oh my Goodness! Remember that "big" gift I mentioned in the previous post, we'll this is it! A NordicTrack Viewpoint 3500! Sounds impressive doesn't it. Oh yeah! For an out-of-shape flamingo, it's very impressive!

We purchased this baby on the Black Friday event from Norditrack online. They had a special that was just too good to pass up. I mean I was thinking of a low key treadmill, but Dan says, no, we need to get something that will last and do what we want. Like buying a computer, always get as much as you can afford, it's worth it.

The treadmill arrived after Thanksgiving and Dan put it together while also installing a new garage door opener (multi-tasking...now that's impressive too) haha. This baby has a flat screen TV that hooks into our cable system, has iFit card capability, plus I can hook my iPod to it and the speakers are great! Everything it can to keep one using it. Really. These little iFit programs do the incline and the speed during the various programs. Wow, this is going to be great. We weren't sure where to even put it, so it's right in the living room. At least this way it's right out there in front of me day after day calling me.

So, we splurged and got this little sweetie for less than half price, plus free shipping, plus the Three Levels of Workouts with none other than Jillian Michaels (TV's toughest trainer...and I now know why) from "The Biggest Loser" show on TV. We always watch the show. Last season the second place winner was from little ole Titusville, right here in Indian River City (and that's a fact).

I was excited about getting the Jillian workouts. It's three separate iFit cards that go from Level 1 thru 3. There are 24 different workouts for 8 weeks (3x/wk) on each of the iFit cards. My own personal trainer yelling at me! Actually, supporting me, yeah right!

You know Jillian, yelling in your face..."you can do it," "hang in there," "don't hold on to the handles," or "you'll regret not finishing." Love her, don't you, yeah right!

I have been using the "demo workout" iFit card that came with it preparing myself for Jillian. A 20-minute beginner workout. No problem, although a little tough for me. Getting my feet wet, yeah right!

Well, Sunday it was time for Jillian! I inserted that iFit card and away we went. Level 1, Workout 1. No sweat. A 20-minute workout going only up to 5mph and 5 or 6 incline. No sweat. I've been preparing, yeah right!

Oh my! After 10 minutes I had to stopped the darn thing as I was going to pass out for sure. My legs were cramping in the back, sweat rolling down my face (and I had the fan on too), uncontrollable breathing. Somebody help me, now! When you're on an incline of 4 and going 5mph it isn't going to be pretty, at least not for this flamingo who is overweight and out of shape. Oh my! I finally pushed the stop button as I was going to fall off, or either be thrown off letting the track send me off the back. Luckily, there is a recliner just behind the treadmill. haha

Sounds easier than it was, oh yeah! I gave it a try again yesterday...same results! So, this morning it was back to the programs that came installed on the machine which I now know I must start small and work my way up to Jillian! My word, I'm out of shape!

I love it though. It's a great workout, and it's going to be good for me. Dan hasn't tried it yet...he just keeps watching me so is probably scared. He'll stick with his rowing machine. More on that later! haha

I don't make new year resolutions anymore, I just change it/do it when it's time, whatever time that may be. I did real good last year. I quit smoking cigarettes. As of January 2, 2009, it will be 6 months! I feel so much better in that regard.

However, now after the holidays, we'll there not over yet, but I'm beginning to fill like a stuffed chicken instead of a strutting Florida duster. I am very thankful though that I took off 10 pounds prior to quitting. And, I'm happy to say (yes, happy) that I have gained those back, but not all the inches I lost, 'cause I'm smoke free!

I'll keep you posted on my progress. I'm going to work my way up to Jillian...could be a while. Even though I had a high respect for the contestants of "The Biggest Loser" I have even more now. When I'm finally able to do the Level 1, Workout 1, a 20-minute session with Jillian reinforcing me all the way, it will be a major milestone, oh yeah! We will celebrate! Happy New Year!

Christmas Day 2008

2008-12-27T17:58:00.019-05:00

I hope you all had a very Merry Christmas. All at the Wade house did. Thought I'd share a little of our Christmas day with you. From the looks of the tree, I'd say we did very well, indeed. A lot of empty boxes do the trick! haha This photo was actually taken Christmas eve, before the tree was covered in icicles. It's just not a Christmas tree in our house until the icicles go on. They went on after everyone went to bed and Santa did his magic!

Last year our tree proudly displayed the American flag at the top, however this year, it had two flags. I followed the lead of the 2008 White House ornament (shown here). This ornament was given to me by Whiz and Alexa Broome when I visited with them in Arlington earlier this month.

And, of course, the tree has flamingos on it, but this one is special. It was given to me by my sister-in-law, Brenda several years ago. It was the second ornament to go on the tree this year, first being the White House ornament.

Since there are no young children in our home, only us children at heart, we were all able to sleep in on Christmas morning. However, when it came about 10:30 a.m. this little flamingo was getting her feathers ruffled....it's time to open gifts. Wake up Mom!

Actually, I knew what my gift was from Santa as I had bought it a couple days earlier when Dan and I went shopping. We were just anxious to open what other's had given us as we save all the gifts given us and open them on Christmas morning. Some times there are a few surprises, but not this year. Dan and I bought a "big" gift for us this year which arrived shortly after Thanksgiving. More later on that.
Santa started passing out the packages and the fun began. Mom received a lot of nice gifts this
year. One shown here is a vest that my sister made for her. She loved it.

Now don't we looked surprised and happy. Santa brought us new robes. Mom got one also. Do you see a theme here? It was great. Dan and I got green ones, and mom got a blue one.

Can't wait until it gets cold around here so we can wear them. Right now we'd faint from the heat! Cold front should be here Monday, and I use that term loosely! We're having a heat wave in Florida right now.

My dad used to race boats when he was younger. Mom has told me many fun stories of the racing days. I found this photo in the old family albums and new I had to do something with it. I did a little photo restoration on it and it was good to go.

She had been asking me to get her a photo of dad that she would like, one of the way she remembered him in her dreams. I thought this might work, and oh my, it did. If you could see closely on this photo, she's almost in tears. (She doesn't cry much at all.) She took that photo and hugged it and said, "this is the way I remember him." She then went on to tell me that the photo was taken when dad was at the finish line of a race on the Hudson River in New York. He had won the race, but didn't realize it until they told him. It's a beautiful photo. I was so happy I found it.

We enjoyed a great brunch together, then just relaxed and had a wonderful peaceful day. We talked with family and friends which is always nice on Christmas. Later in the evening we finally ate our Christmas dinner of Honey-Baked ham with our favorite trimmings. I believe this is the first time we have eaten Christmas dinner in the dining room of this house (we've been her since 2003 when mom moved in with us).

I didn't get out all the decorations from the attic this year, so just used the Christmas china, Christmas linens, cards we received, and fresh flowers as decorations. The tablecloth here was done in cross-stitch by my sister many years ago and given to me as a Christmas gift. We use it every Christmas. So, since the table was set, why not eat there.

We usually eat in the dining area of our family room. I have a new tablecloth for that table this year which is one that mom just finished embroidering for me. It's beautiful also and something I will cherish forever. You wouldn't believe the beautiful needlepoint, embroidery, paintings, crocheting and crewel work mom has done for me over the years. Our home is filled with these special things made by hand with love from my mom. Oh, but that's another story.

Here is the tablecloth my mom did along with the flowers that Dan's mom sent us.

We had a wonderful Christmas. We have been very blessed to have our jobs, our health, our family, our friends and many, many cherished Christmas memories. We hope you all had a beautiful day in your special way also.

Peach Brandy Pound Cakes for Christmas

2008-12-22T04:31:00.005-05:00

It's Peach Brandy Pound Cake baking day at the Wade home. This cake is one of my favorite which I bake usually every Christmas. It's a perfect gift to my friends as it tastes great. Any southern gal knows how to make a good pound cake, and there are many, many variations, but this is my favorite. It's a Southern Living recipe I've been baking since 1997.

Enjoy! and Merry Christmas! Flamingo 91

PEACH BRANDY POUND CAKE
1 cup butter, softened
3 cups sugar
6 large eggs
3 cups all-purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon baking soda

1/8 teaspoon salt

1 (8 oz.) carton sour cream

1/2 cup peach brandy

2 teaspoons dark rum

1 teaspoon orange extract

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon lemon extract

1/4 teaspoon almond extract

Beat butter at medium speed of an electric mixer 2 minutes. Gradually add sugar, beating at medium speed 5 minutes. Add eggs, one at a time, beating just until yellow disappears. Combine flour, soda, and salt; add to butter mixutre alternately with sour cream, beginning and ending with flour mixture. Mix at low speed just until blended after each addition. Stir in brandy and remaining ingredients.

Pour batter into a greased and floured 10-inch tube pan or bundt pan. Bake at 325 degrees for 1 1/2 hours or until a wooden pick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool in pan on a wire rack 10 to 15 minutes; remove from pan, and let cool completely on wire rack.

GEORGE S. PATTON, JR. 11 NOV 1885--21 DEC 1945

2008-12-21T05:01:00.005-05:00

General George S. Patton, Jr. died 63 years ago today. He was one of America's greatest leaders of men and deserves to be remembered as such. George S. Patton, Jr. didn't die on the field of battle, but instead as the result of injuries sustained in a freak automobile accident near Mannheim, Germany, on December 9, 1945. Please take the time to read this posting by Thirdwave Dave.

Remember, it's our responsibility to pass this history on to our younger generations. We need men like Patton now more than ever. Take the time.

"Politicians are the lowest form of life on earth. Liberal Democrats are the
lowest form of politician."--Patton

Holiday blessings to each of you, Flamingo 91

Wreaths Across America - Arlington National Cemetery

2008-12-15T11:09:00.054-05:00

What a wonderful weekend. I had an awesome trip to our nation's capitol, with two missions...main mission being to lay holiday wreaths on the graves of our fallen heroes at Arlington National Cemetery with the Wreaths Across America (WAA) organization and the other mission, to meet with my friend Whiz Broome and his wife Alexa.

I'm going to try to put down in words the experience of this weekend but words just can't properly convey the feelings I had. Excitement, anticipation, joy, sorrow, love and so much more. Meeting with my friends, being in the most sacred hallowed cemetery, and meeting new people. The history, the lives, the stories of the courageous men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice, their lives, in service to our country, for our freedom was overwhelming, to say the very least. But know it was a wonderful overwhelming, the kind I love.

I arrived in DC early Friday morning and boy was it cold for this Flamingo! I made my way to the hotel and settled in (yeah, they let me check in at 10am). First, I contacted Diehard who I was to meet up with Saturday along with the Patriot Guard escort for the Wreaths Across America trucks. Diehard let me know that one of his brother's from their Vietnam biker group had died this past week, the funeral being Saturday and so he wouldn't be able to attend. No problem Diehard, know one brother knew you needed to be with the other brother this weekend. I was now on my own.

No problem, as this Florida duster knew the drill from last year. I am a Firebird, you know! I headed out to the local shopping area until about 2pm (actually spent time in the Borders bookstore...love the book stores).

Later that afternoon I met up with my friend, Chp (Col.) Whiz Broome at the Pentagon. As most of you know he's the Pentagon Chaplain. His deputy, Ch (Maj) Andrew R. Harewood took me on a private tour of the 911 Memorial which is a most spectacular, moving memorial. It's a must see if you're in Washington. The winter is not as pretty as spring there, but the effect of the memorial is strong no matter what time of year. Thank you Andrew.

I spent the rest of Friday afternoon visiting with Whiz in his office. We had a great time catching up on things. He gave me a most rare and memorable gift of two programs and pins. One was from the Pentagon's Memorial Service on October 11, 2001. There is also a lapel pin designed specifically for this event. The other program is from the Pentagon's 911 Dedication Ceremony for the 911 Memorial this September 11, 2008, which also includes a lapel pin designed specifically for it. There were only a certain number of these made and I know how one of each. Wow! I am so honored to have such a fine and rare gift. (Photo of Whiz and I was taken last year when I did the WAA. We haven't aged so I thought why not.)

Later Alexa (his wife) picked us up and we all went out to dinner and had a splendid evening. So good was the visit that I completely forgot to take any photos. I could kick myself, but that's that. We have those precious memories though, which is priceless. Thank you Whiz and Alexa for a wonderful Friday of friendship and the great dinner at McCormick and Schmidts. I have been blessed, indeed.
Back at the hotel this Flamingo headed to the bar for a night cap (or three) and to check email. As I was going back to my room I met up with three gals (Vicky, Sharon and Helen) who were also here for the WAA event. They were from Maine, had a vehicle and offered to let me ride to the cemetery with them in the morning. Great! I met them for breakfast in the morning and we were on our way to ANC about 7:30am.

Everyone gathered at the McClellan Gate just inside the front entrance to ANC. The trucks were there, the people were gathering, and excitement was filling the air. We were talking to everyone, laughing, having great camaraderie and having a wonderful time.

Know that most of us are dressed for laying wreaths, warmth and are just regular folks. There are some dignitaries there, the supervisor of ANC, and military. However, one person just stood out in the crowd. Low and behold it was Clark Kent and we wondered when Superman would emerge. He was a hoot! Now if this isn't Clark Kent, well. hahahaha He stood around most of the time just like this photo shows. Once, we did see him working on the speaker. He picked it up and jumped back a bit when he realized it was "live." Yes, Clark it does work. Where's that phone booth? He was truly a classic! HAHAHA

I met up with Merrill Worcester, owner Worcester Wreath Company and donator of the wreaths. He remembered me from last year and gave me a big hug. He started this endeavor 17 years ago. There were only a few volunteers then. This year there were probably 5,000 volunteers. Awesome.

James B. Peake, Secretary o f Veterans Affairs spoke this year thanking Mr. Worcesteand the volunteers for the continued support of our heroes. Later, I went up to him, shook his hand and thanked him. I told him why I was there and we talked a little about the MIAs.

We began laying the wreaths across Section 12 about 9:30. Wreaths were also laid at other prominent locations (Kennedy graves, Edmund Muskie grave, and the Tomb of the Unknown Soliders) The latter being done at Noon.

After all the wreaths were laid and most everyone had left the cemetery, I stayed to walk among our brave warriors. I walked and walked and still did not see everything as ANC is huge. I read names, their lives etched with only dates of life and death and their honors, maybe where they were from, their legacy. It was truly an honor to be among them.

I walked up the hill to the Arlington House (the Custis/Lee house). All the furniture had been removed for restoration, but to walk through the rooms of this house was an experience I couldn't pass up. If you listen hard enough you can hear them, you can feel the joy and sorrow of this home and you can see the beauty everywhere. It was awesome. The view of our nation's capitol from this viewpoint is spectacular to say the very least. The photos I took really don't do it justice.

To see the immence spread of graves across the acres of land is humbling. I walked down the rolling hills back to Section 60 to say farewell to Herby as I knew it was time to move on. I prayed, I wished him a Merry Christmas and told him I would be back. He has great company, you know. He's not alone so I'm happy about that. I dried my eyes, for the umpteenth time, and walked away knowing all was well. I had done a good thing.

I headed to the Metro station and went in to DC. I walked up Pennsylvania Ave and got my picture taken in front of the White House. I took photos of couples for them in front of the White House also. Having fun! I then headed over to the National Headquarters for the Daughters of the American Revolution. I'm going to join the DAR so wanted to see the headquarters. I got a private tour of the beautiful building. More on this another day.

I headed back up Constitution Ave and took this photo of the Washington Monument right about dusk. Needless to say by now this Flamingo had been walking since 7:30 in the morning and she was getting pretty tired. Feathers were starting to droop. I headed back to ride the Metro to the hotel, via Pentagon City. Enjoyed a couple Wild Goose IPAs (great beer) and a dinner of Blue Crab, crab cakes at Harry's Tap Room. I was sitting at the bar (best place to meet people) and met a nice young man from Georgia who had recently returned from service with the Peace Corps in South Africa. He had just landed a job in DC, was moving into a rented room the next day. He told me what a great experience he had in South Africa and how much it helped him. Nice guy. I gave him the Metro pass that Whiz had given me ($30 value) as I had only used it for my earlier trip into DC. He was elated for the gift. Heck, I couldn't use it.

I got back to the hotel and met up with other people who had laid wreaths earlier. It was so awesome to talk with all these folks. Everyone has a story that's worth hearing.

Amazing the people you connect with out there. Just open those wings and fly a little. You'll be amazed where you land some times.

I did a good thing this weekend. It's a great thing to do, actually. I think it's a must thing to do for each and every American. Walk those hallowed grounds, read the names, read their lives, thank them, pray. You don't need to lay wreaths to do this either. These men and women are why you're able to live free. So, respect our fallen, support our active warriors serving and our retired who have served. They are our American heroes. God Bless them, and their families this holiday season. Merry Christmas.

(Notice all the wreaths on the graves in the background of Herby's marker? The graves now have wreaths compared to the photo at the top of this story. Awesome.)